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User Topic: If you could change your username at SI...
BrighterFuture
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Member # 38914
Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...what would it be?

I feel stuck with this username that describes my past, but not my present or future. If I could change my username it would be: BrighterFuture.


Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.


Posts: 340 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Ohio
nowiknow23
♀ Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In case you don't know, Platinum members CAN change their username. ONCE.

ETA:

New Platinum Feature: Permanent Name Change

Platinum members now have the ability to permanently change your SI username once. This action will only affect your username. Your username will change everywhere including the archives and any other posting history. Your profile will display your old username along with your new one. (e.g., Username (previously oldUsername))

If you go to your profile you will now see a "Change" link next to your username. Once you change your name the link will disappear.

[This message edited by nowiknow23 at 1:37 PM, November 6th (Wednesday)]


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25059 | Registered: Aug 2011
Marathonwaseasy
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Member # 40674
Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm happy with mine actually as it sums up how I felt on dday and feel now I'm starting to R. 26.2 miles. Pah.
Nothing compared to this marathon.


Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
DDay 13/9/13
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...

"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."


Posts: 421 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Ireland
BrighterFuture
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Member # 38914
Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

nowiknow23. Thanks for the info. What does it take to become a platinum member?


Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.


Posts: 340 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Ohio
nowiknow23
♀ Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very - there's a sticky topic at the top of the General forum regarding Premium Access. Lots of details there.

Here's the link to the upgrade page, should you decide to do so. https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/premium.asp


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25059 | Registered: Aug 2011
Skan
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Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nope. I like my name. A lot. Skan is a Lakota Sioux word meaning the motion of the universe. Skan enters the body with the spirit and sets new life in motion. Perhaps another way would be to say spiritual movement.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4727 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
SerJR
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Member # 14993
Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd change it to nowiknow22 and complain that 23 was just trying to ride my coattails...


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17093 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage



..perhaps i would change mine to Deeply Scarred..

just to confuse everybody..

..sadly, the new name would fit my situation..

..by the way, as a side note.. i tried placing the emoticon at the end of the sentence, but it seems to be jumping backwards, into the middle or even splitting a word into t wo parts such as..

see what i mean???

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4120 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
Grace and Flowers
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Member # 34431
Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just changed mine! On D-Day I was definitely Sad and Mad. And D-Day was January 1, 2012. Thus was born SadMad2012.

But...I'm happy now, not sad! I've hated that people might think I'm still sad and mad! I have days where those emotions still kick in, but overall, I am MUCH happier being divorced and living my own life...one without lies or distrust. I've grown so much in the last two years. I love my life! I'm so glad I was finally able to upgrade to Platinum and change the name.

Taken from a Mumford & Son's song that got me through the worst times...

"Get over your hill and see
What you find there
With Grace in your heart and
Flowers in your hair"

Every hill I face in the future will be faced with grace in my heart, and flowers in my hair!


I'm Happy, not Sad!

Posts: 1159 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd change it to nowiknow22 and complain that 23 was just trying to ride my coattails...

Rotten kid - get off my screen name!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25059 | Registered: Aug 2011
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh-em-gee! SadMa...*cough* Grace and Flowers. Your name is epic. Totally suits your personality. Love the change.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6167 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 1:28 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aww, thanks, Aubrie!


I'm Happy, not Sad!

Posts: 1159 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
BrighterFuture
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Member # 38914
Default  Posted: 4:34 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can't afford premium access right now inorder to change my username. If only I could have foreseen the future when I registered I would have known my hurt & brokenness was a temporary situation. I'm in a better place now. My future is looking bright!

[This message edited by VeryHurtbroken at 4:36 AM, November 7th (Thursday)]


Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.


Posts: 340 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Ohio
JanaGreen
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Member # 29341
Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I deliberately chose a name that didn't reflect how I was feeling when I signed up, because I didn't want to feel stuck with that later. Jana Green is completely made up and I'm not sure where it came from, other than the fact that green is my favorite color. I wouldn't change it now.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6671 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
BrighterFuture
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Member # 38914
Default  Posted: 11:09 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Someone at SI made it possible. I now have a name I'm proud of. I don't know who you're, but I just wanted to say thank you so much. Thank you to the people of SI as well!

[This message edited by BrighterFuture at 11:12 PM, November 7th (Thursday)]


Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.


Posts: 340 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Ohio
timeforchange
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Member # 27454
Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah BrighterFuture how neat is that.

What a kind gesture

I had been very unhappy for 3 years (due to exs daily emotional abuse and occasional physical abuse).

Discovering his A was a relief... It gave me the chance to walk away.

I remember feeling so strongly that it was Time for Change.

Maybe if I would change mine it would be.... TimesHaveReallyChanged.

But I love my name.... It reminds me that even on DDay I knew life was going to be Whole lot better without him.
Best epiphany I ever had. And my life now is so very happy -
Life changed completely and it is a wonderful wonderful life.


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
BrighterFuture
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Member # 38914
Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

timeforchange, thank you. I'm glad you're happy now. This is a wonderful forum with very nice people. Your username is also wonderful!


Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.


Posts: 340 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Ohio
WhatsRight
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Member # 35417
Default  Posted: 6:06 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

..by the way, as a side note.. i tried placing the emoticon at the end of the sentence, but it seems to be jumping backwards, into the middle or even splitting a word into t wo parts such as..

Oh My Gosh...me too!!! What is happeni ng?

See?????


"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy


Posts: 1889 | Registered: Apr 2012
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I chose my name at the time I joined based on my career, because I knew that would support me through whatever changes were going to happen.

I am no longer a Tushnurse, and would probably choose something along the lines of what makes me happy, and represents us becoming healed and whole again. So I guess I would be QnHnyBee.
As My H now treats me like the Queen I am, and the HoneyBees have really been part of my healing and strengthening process.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8229 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
eachdayisvictory
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Member # 40462
Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like my name still. It works when I'm in pain and survive a day, and it works when I feel like I can conquer the world! Each day is a victory for me, especially the ones when I can genuinely feel like I wouldn't mind not existing any longer. Then I can celebrate that I reigned victorious over that day, feeling, low, or whatever comes my way.

Well, maybe I would use 'SheraPrincessOfPower'. I used to want to be that little tart with her mini skirt and magic wand and supreme strengt h.


me, BW: 34
FWH: 35
Dday: Feb 2013
LTA for 2+years
children: 2 boys age 3 and 6
Reconciling

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