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User Topic: Being happy that I didn't give up.
LearnToLoveAgain
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Member # 40950
Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So it's been a little over 3 months since my fWS "ONS" (he didn't sleep with the girl but things went to far). It's been hell. Lots of tears and anger and everything in between. I'm still hurt but everyday is better. He's doing everything right. He's remorseful he cries with me holds me and takes time out of his busy work day to call me. Makes sure I'm ok and asks if I need anything or if I need to talk. Our MC sessions are better an I'm actually happy again. I know everyone's situation is different but hold on to hope and love. Things really do get better!!


Me-BS
Him-fWS
DDay 8/03/13 husband told me not even 24 hours after it happened.

Almost ONS actual sex never took place
Currently in R and doing great.


Posts: 43 | Registered: Oct 2013
iwillNOT
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Member # 40605
Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so happy for you! Sounds like you and your fWS are finding your way through. Keep moving forward!

Holding onto hope and love...I like the sound of that.

Thank you for sharing


Me: BS, 43
Him: WH, 44
Together 21 years
Married 14 years
Kiddos 2,6,8,10
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Rugsweep now, pay later. Ask me how I know.

Posts: 504 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
HardenMyHeart
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Member # 15902
Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


Posts: 5652 | Registered: Aug 2007
chick
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Member # 41073
Default  Posted: 2:28 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very happy for you, great to hear and I hope it just keeps getting better


Me - 32
Him - 32
D-Day - 6th Oct 2013
He had a ONS on 23rd Sept 2013

Posts: 69 | Registered: Oct 2013
LearnToLoveAgain
♀ New Member
Member # 40950
Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, November 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone!


Me-BS
Him-fWS
DDay 8/03/13 husband told me not even 24 hours after it happened.

Almost ONS actual sex never took place
Currently in R and doing great.


Posts: 43 | Registered: Oct 2013
StillStanding1
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Member # 40144
Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, November 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love hearing good news !!! Good for you!


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 679 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
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