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User Topic: Trying to trick WS?
stongmomof3
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Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did anyone attempt to trap or catch them in a lie? Or attempt
To catch them trying to hook up with AP or some new AP? After dday I sent my WS a text from an unknown number pretending to be one of the OW. I just wanted to let see if he would really tell me right away that she broke no contact. He did within seconds. I heard his ding for the text in the other room and then I heard him say WTF. It was a small relief. I told him immediately it was me and I appreciated him being honest (for once).


Me 34 BS
Him 44 WS
3 EA, 1 PA each lasting over 7 months concurrently.
Are we in R? who the hell knows.

Posts: 61 | Registered: Oct 2013
KatieG
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How did he react to being tricked - ok?


DD#1 - 6th Oct 13 - TT
DD#2 - 9th Nov 13 - Full disclosure
DD#3 - 12th May 14 - FOG lifted and in R
7 week A, 2 weeks together, rest phone and email - PA and EA

Posts: 483 | Registered: Nov 2013
Merlin
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Playing 'gotcha' is rarely necessary with waywards.

They can rarely keep their stories straight.


"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence

Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11


Posts: 1164 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: East Coast
stongmomof3
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Member # 41158
Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He said he understood and was relieved that it was me, because he would be shocked and furious at her. Our OW Seemed more remorseful than he did at the time.


Me 34 BS
Him 44 WS
3 EA, 1 PA each lasting over 7 months concurrently.
Are we in R? who the hell knows.

Posts: 61 | Registered: Oct 2013
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've thought about it more than a few times. I prob would have if I knew more info..but he's pretty good at erasing tracks. I did tell a lie on DD, to get him to confess what I suspected. It worked. I told him I had pix of he and ow, he actually believed me.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5133 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
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