their marriage had been over for 6 years previous to that. no sex of any kind, didnt even share the same bedroom. roommates with kids basically. and i know this from mutual friends of hers...not from him.
No, their marriage hasn't been over. Nobody but the wife and the husband knows exactly what's been going on in their marriage. They still live together as a family, so you had no right to involve yourself in their relationship.
all this time he's told me he was leaving and would file for divorce but he still has yet to do so.
LOL...he's been using you and you allowed him to. You were a convenience who gave him the ego strokes he wanted to make himself feel better. If he wanted to divorce his wife, he would have a long time ago.
i tell him he needs to just tell them and get it over and finished and be done with worrying about what they'll think. kids are 18 and 14
You have no right to tell anybody how to parent their kids, especially given you've helped destroy their family. Given you've moved a married man into your home and involved him with your own children, you are in no place to give anybody else parenting advice.
You are just trying to push him to make your relationship "legitimate". Well, sorry hun, that's never going to happen. You will always be the "other woman", whether he ever divorces or not.
do any of you know what type of app i could use to find out what they're talking about? we both have iphones.
Really? Are you afraid he's doing to you what he did with you? You should be.