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User Topic: Who Wants to Help Host a NB party for Nature_Girl?
JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well my time at work is almost done, so I will leave you with a karaoke request. You should sing ignorance or playing god by paramore. Those were my post d songs. Rock it out!


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey, here are some songs that helped me along this path to freedom. Let's all sing & dance, everyone!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N2K_F5h1poo

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8UVNT4wvIGY

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Fko7_SV3Lc

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3D5FwwtNVM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QGJuMBdaqIw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yTCDVfMz15M

Gotta run & make some din-din. Be back with more songs.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9829 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Looking at my grammar, maybe I don't need more drinks before I sing!

Thanks for the music, N_G!

Dmari, I still am at home in D/S. I don't have much of a NB to talk about. No job. No school. Most definitely no male companionship. I'm afraid my NB could be best described by the movie title "Failure to Launch".

Nature, new beginnings can be a lot of things. Even just how the light in your house seems different or the weight off your shoulders is almost literal at times. The smallest things count and are how I started to live again. For me, one of the first things I found to be positive was house plants. How sad is that??

Iím divorced over a year and still have no male companionship. Not that there arenít offers. EWWW! They come out of the woodwork sometimes. Just no one that appeals to me yet. My job isnít much, and Iím not currently doing school. Iím still doing recovery work, as much as I can.
And I still post in divorce/separation sometimes. Iím not sure where the ďMy Ex Wonít Move On/StalkingĒ thread belongs.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are we having a good time yet?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rYEDA3JcQqw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wo26sCH-Fw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y1Zcffw76qM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1Z0H8CHPIU

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mi5ODY-vIzI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-iXzPkgNpw


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9829 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ngGgy62lMj0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vf43LCtGrj4

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kX7XMwBVZ6c

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4emYaDbaJ8w

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2ECMmxO5cY

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r1MjRp0ys5I

Quite a few of these songs were recommended by fellow survivors here!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9829 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oooh!! This is fun!
Pass me a plate of those brownies!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4687 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll bring brownies but I'll stay away from the mic out if respect/concern for everyone's ears.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You don't have to sing, BigHurt; just join the dancing!


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey Compartmented, here's a thread with me sharing some of what you're talking about as far as a New Beginning not necessarily being the big things. And yet these are about the biggest things of all when you get down to it:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=513169


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9829 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are we having fun yet???


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9829 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You HAVE to click & read this link! YOU HAVE TO!!! PARTY GIRL SAYS SO!!!

http://dontpkethebear.com/25-funny-auto-correct-fails/


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9829 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
numbandnauseous
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG- sitting in my bathtub, laughing hysterically!!!!

Great autocorrects!!!

Also love the song in your tagline, NG!!!

Raising a glass to toast your NB, NG!!!!


BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Divorcing

Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is a tame version of how my kids reacted when I talked with them about Daddy & I being single now and might one day have someone we'd be interested in romantically.

My third child screamed NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!! and had a hysterical melt-down.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9829 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bit late to the party but reasoned such a big celebration would
Not be a one night event right? Was imaging it more along the lines of Brazil's Carnival lasting for a few days.

I am useless at opening links from my iphone, so apologies if you have already posted this but I think the following song is a great New Beginnings song and I think it is particularly fitting for you NG.

My Best Days are Ahead of Me by Danny Gokey.

Enjoy



Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

ďWe must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.Ē


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nature girl!!!! Cheers!!!!!



me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2217 | Registered: Jan 2012
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Default  Posted: 8:37 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://dontpkethebear.com/25-funny-auto-correct-fails/

!!!!

Chicken vaginas???

Those were so funny!!


Posts: 1275 | Registered: Aug 2010
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great party!! Sorry I'm a bit late...

I've got some buttons for everyone

and I found the perfect cake!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

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