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User Topic: What.The.Hell is *This*???!!!???
forlornheart
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree it's wicked scary that he's looking at shit like this but answer me this.....does he really think this is gonna work? Is he actually going to spend money on that shit???

Doubly scary!!! Whew!!


Me: 48- BW
Him: 45-WH-chronic cheater, PA and EA
Current Her: Mid to late 30's fatassed, no necked, troglodyte
D Day: August 23, 2013
Separated: August 23, 2013


Posts: 52 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Michigan
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is he actually going to spend money on that shit???

uhhhh.....he has purchased *something* from that website -- actually more than one *something*. The module that I pulled the quote from has a 14-day trial that I know that he ordered -- I don't think that he ended up purchasing it at the end of the 14 days -- although he did get to retain access to some of the *freebie* modules that were included.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7680 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


uhhhh.....he has purchased *something* from that website -- actually more than one *something*.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24385 | Registered: Aug 2011
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

rushing in to T/J, not to comment...

'caricature of a loser' - now THAT'S an insult to remember. Thanks, Take2.


fBH (me) - 65+, fWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9735 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
forlornheart
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm speechless. Was he always this way??

My stbx really has thrown some curve balls at me. I'd almost swear he's not the same person. His 'thing' was joining all the ONS dating sites. POF, Hot Match....crap like that. His been doing that for at least 2 years though I'd guess longer.
Gross bastard!!



Me: 48- BW
Him: 45-WH-chronic cheater, PA and EA
Current Her: Mid to late 30's fatassed, no necked, troglodyte
D Day: August 23, 2013
Separated: August 23, 2013


Posts: 52 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Michigan
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Somehow I think your panties won't be getting soaked for someone stupid enough to fall for this. No matter what the ad promises.

"Use these powers for good, not evil. Wield the wang wisely."

Seriously...he's being a disgusting jerk...but a moronic disgusting jerk.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

❣I hope my issues don't discourage ur healing. I've buried a lot & my WH hasn't done his part in R❣


Posts: 10982 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Limbo
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You know those absolutely ridiculous and disgusting emails that show up in your junk filter for penile enhancement or local sluts or whatever? I always look at those and think "Who is actually stupid enough to A) open these and B) think they actually work?

Thank you gonnabe.. because now I know who.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 43905 | Registered: Sep 2006
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Sweetie, he's going to use this on YOU! Right? He'll Sham-Pussy you and give you a Sham-Orgasm. Shah-ZAM!!!

Yes?


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9237 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've started to write a comment several times but this is beyond rational so they seemed lame and I deleted before I posted.
I'm rarely speechless- but this...

How gross and desperate that first line of product description sounds. Some mouth breather setting down some toolbox full of "tools" behind some unsuspecting female of unknown age is what it brings to mind. WTH?! Chlorophyll laced with Spanish fly perhaps? Eeegads! People send in money for this crap too.


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1280 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I'm wondering.....shall I officially re-dub him *ShaZam*?


I always look at those and think "Who is actually stupid enough to A) open these and B) think they actually work?

Yea, meta.....me, too.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7680 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
refuz2bavictim
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bahahahahahahaha bahahahahahaha

ooops maybe it does work as advertised

I'm a little wet.

Bahahahahaha


Oh wait...wrong kind of wet. Sorry


BS:ME DDay: 7/18/09 Last of TT 7/11/10
MOW's EA/PA all were my "friends" but one


Posts: 2372 | Registered: Jan 2010
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ooops maybe it does work as advertised

I'm a little wet.

Oh Honey, it's not the same kind of wet.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9237 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh wait...wrong kind of wet. Sorry


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7680 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
pointofnoreturn
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Default  Posted: 3:38 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Why waste money when you can just delude yourself into the red pill theory? Saves you tons of money, and you can still be a misogynist!


Me- WGF 22
Him- BBF 21
Ddays:
August 2011
September 26th, 2013

"A lesson is learned. Life is. Simply. There is no Death. There is no Before. There is no After. All is in Flux. Simply."


Posts: 185 | Registered: Oct 2013
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

C'mon. Y'all must just be sexual prudes who can't look at sex like an adult!

(Like me! At least according to xpos!).

I'm sure xpos is familiar with that site and shopped there too. He knows about a lot of that stuff. He came into the room one night and turned the TV I had been watching, told me I should do some shopping, then left. It was a sex toy shopping channel.

He often said he believed he had "low T" even after being tested. He just didn't want it enough to suit him! Or that may have been a cover in case I wanted it sometime when he couldn't use another viagra that soon after he had screwed someone else or too many others.

They're both scary guys.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2181 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
hopefulmother
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, what can you expect from a man that thinks the love in affairs is real!

You guys are too funny. Seriously..so sorry you have to deal with that, but it really lifted up my trigger day and reminded me of just how ridiculously pathetic our cheating spouses are.


Me-BW 39
WH-39
D-day 9-4-12
Major TT 8-14
Friends for 20yrs dating since 2000
Married 9yrs with 2 toddlers
My wedding band is a symbol of hope, forgiveness, love, and grace.

Posts: 901 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: East Coast
5454real
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Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

and then I

Gonna, I don't think you ever have to doubt that you have made the right decision again. this guy is beyond pathetic.

how will you ever be able to look at him without laughing again? every time you see him with another woman, you're going to have to wonder if this is a product testimonial!

and then, I'm sorry. your kids deserve better. what an asshole.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2540 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was a sex toy shopping channel.

Really? There's a channel for that now?


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9237 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
LivinginLimbo
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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I thought they were all so incredibly irresistible that they had to share their "gift" with others. Are you telling me that they need "assistance" in that department?! I'm stunned.


BS - 62
FWH - 60
Married 34 years
D-Day 2/12/12
Doing well with R

Posts: 994 | Registered: Mar 2012
jackie89
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Default  Posted: 6:17 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

every time you see him with another woman, you're going to have to wonder if this is a product testimonial!

I was thinking the same thing!


Separated - working on R

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