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User Topic: Want my D file copies
dreamlife
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Question  Posted: 8:18 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How many have asked for copies of D case file?

Am I being weird or unreasonable?

That time we were all supposed to show up for court in order to have my support re-started & WH and his L never appeared...last moment via phone proceeding thing which pissed off the Judge...my L was examining WH's financial docs, etc.
I want copies of that.
Hell, I WANT COPIES OF EVERY DAMNED THING PERTAINING TO MY D!

Am I entitled to them?

Anyone know?

Anyone feel the same way after being kept in the dark (after a decade of M)?


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25429 | Registered: Sep 2005
Later
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just call your lawyer and ask for them. Unless there is some type of protective order on particular documents you should be entitled to get them.

You may want to assure your attorney that you just want them for your own benefit, because most of the time when a client asks his/her attorney for the file it means they are about to fire the attorney.

BTW, the pleadings are available a the clerk's office, but probably do not include the supporting documents for the financial disclosures.


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somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

..hi

..I would think your lawyer should be "demanding' full disclosure of all documents pertaining to your D, including all financial declarations made by him.

..your lawyer should be fighting for you..that's what you're paying him for!!!

..hope you get what you need from him..

smy

..tried to put a smile imoticon at the end but it just won't go where i put it!

[This message edited by somanyyears at 9:08 PM, November 9th (Saturday)]


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4122 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, this is a relief to know.
(Because when I asked her para-legal about it, I got that deer in the headlights stare).

I needed a pitbull but got a lamb, albeit the ONLY honest lamb out of over 8 L I interviewed over the years.


no, L thought it best to let him think he got away w/ hiding our $$$...I wanted her to ream him but good!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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