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hopeandchange
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Member # 33287
Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stbxww and I were married 22 years ago today. We are sharing our home till she moves next month. Her betrayals are so fresh in my mind today Bringing the OM into our home and having sex on our sofa (now gone and replaced)

Grom the best day of my life to the worst day of my life. Hopefully, tomorrow will be better

H&C


BH (me, 50)
WS (her, 48)
Divorced!
3 wonderful teens
Heading for Happiness

Posts: 405 | Registered: Sep 2011
IrishLass518
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Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hopeandchange))) I hope you do have a better tomorrow


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1726 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Merlin
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Member # 30221
Default  Posted: 11:34 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

H&C,

Anniversaries, holidays, birthdays and other special dates seem to lose their meaning when you are dealing with s*** like infidelity and divorce.

And having a wayward under the same roof was among the toughest things I did early on.

Both of these are like trying to live somewhere when all the oxygen has been sucked out of your life.

It's gets better.

Peace & strength.

[This message edited by Merlin at 11:35 AM, November 10th (Sunday)]


"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence

Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11


Posts: 1164 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: East Coast
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((H&C))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25047 | Registered: Aug 2011
changeofheart31
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Member # 41207
Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This day is hard, I understand how you feel! My would have been 5 year anniversary is Friday. I go from angry to sad to just plain numb. ALL I ASK IS WHY?? WHAT DID I DO?? WHAT COULD HAVE I DONE BETTER?? but the truth is nothing!! it was all on him he made the choice to cheat and now like you I am left to pick up what is left. It will heal I am told so until that time lets just go one day at a time. We will get through this and we are not alone even during the worst days..

Posts: 9 | Registered: Nov 2013
Artemisia
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking about you today hopeandchange. My heart goes out to you.


Posts: 112 | Registered: Sep 2013
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, November 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hugs)))


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5774 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
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