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User Topic: I must be ready...
FaithFool
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Funny  Posted: 3:31 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nearly propositioned a soldier today.

Jeez he was gorgeous... We were both standing at the curb waiting for the post-ceremony parade back to the barracks.

He wasn't in uniform but was wearing his beret, quite a few medals, and, oddly, a silver steer-head bolero tie.

Six foot something ginger man with a very nice smile which I observed stealthily from behind dark glasses as he was chatting with an older vet.

Nearly got up the nerve to ask if it would be ok to buy a veteran a drink, since we were outside the hotel with the swanky lounge.

But I didn't.

He had to have an SO on duty somewhere.

Nice to know the heart is still beating though.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 3:33 PM, November 11th (Monday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17165 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You shoulda asked! All he could have done is said no!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2710 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was a close call.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17165 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As much as you relish being alone and doing what you want when you want... maybe a little romance would be nice? A flirtation? You are still breathing!


There is life on the other side of hell.

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh yeah, it would be nice. Just rarely see one who gets my twitter going.

I live in retirement central

They call it the Land of the Newlywed and Nearly Dead.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17165 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AHHH! but you saw one today! Just because someone inspires twitters does not mean he is automatically taken.

In addition being retired does not make one undesirable.


There is life on the other side of hell.

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Retired is good, I'll be there soon enough.

He's just the first one I've seen in aeons that I considered to be remotely attractive.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17165 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
missherlots
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Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, November 11th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

chicken!!


Pain and suffering is part of life, but I choose to feel love and compassion for all people excluding no one.

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lemony.2008
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Default  Posted: 12:59 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He's just the first one I've seen in aeons that I considered to be remotely attractive.

That is so awesome, happy for you!


Feel the feelings and drop the story. - Pema Chodron


Posts: 2243 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
cmego
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Default  Posted: 6:39 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah…I think that was my first sign I was "ready"…I saw a guy and thought, "Wow, he is cute!"

I dawned on me that I wasn't dead and men might be interesting again one day.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4033 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think the thing that stopped me was that I'm an old hippie and probably not a great match for a military guy.

Plus they're away all the time and I've been there, done that for too long.

If it happens again, it will be with someone who stays home.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17165 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just rarely see one who gets my twitter going.
I don't want to know how one knows when one's twitter is going, do I??


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3011 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17165 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
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