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User Topic: Anniversary Today
Rabecca
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hadnít even thought twice about it until today. I honestly didnít realize what day it was until my well-meaning SIL (WHís brotherís wife) sent me a text to make sure I was ok today. It hit me like a ton of bricks and I just couldnít control the flood. I havenít cried over it all this much in over a month. I was starting to feel better and like I was making progress moving on. I had thought about our anniversary coming up over a week ago and rolled my eyes and shrugged my shoulders. I really was not expecting to feel this much pain.


D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)

Posts: 63 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Rabecca
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is ok. Dealing with the aftermath is a like a roller coaster. There will be ups and downs. Take the moment to cry and release. Don't beat yourself up for reacting to the day. Healing is often 2 steps forward and 1 back.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; theyíll scratch you up time and time again but in the end youíre polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51533 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Drowninginitall
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Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs to you today. It is my anniversary today too :(

Posts: 103 | Registered: Oct 2013
Rabecca
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Member # 41076
Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys. It was just so shocking. Hugs Back to you Drowinginitall. What anniversary if you don't mind me asking?


D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)

Posts: 63 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Rabecca
Drowninginitall
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Member # 40968
Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't had the time and mental clarity to even write a bio yet. Married 13 yrs, together better part of 19. 3 DC 5yr olds and a 2yr old.

Posts: 103 | Registered: Oct 2013
Rabecca
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Member # 41076
Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. None of us want to be here but I am grateful we all can be here for each other.


D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)

Posts: 63 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Rabecca
Raven96
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Rabecca and DIA)))


Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?

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