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User Topic: Anniversary Today
Rabecca
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hadnít even thought twice about it until today. I honestly didnít realize what day it was until my well-meaning SIL (WHís brotherís wife) sent me a text to make sure I was ok today. It hit me like a ton of bricks and I just couldnít control the flood. I havenít cried over it all this much in over a month. I was starting to feel better and like I was making progress moving on. I had thought about our anniversary coming up over a week ago and rolled my eyes and shrugged my shoulders. I really was not expecting to feel this much pain.


D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)

Posts: 63 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Rabecca
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is ok. Dealing with the aftermath is a like a roller coaster. There will be ups and downs. Take the moment to cry and release. Don't beat yourself up for reacting to the day. Healing is often 2 steps forward and 1 back.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; theyíll scratch you up time and time again but in the end youíre polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


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Drowninginitall
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Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs to you today. It is my anniversary today too :(

Posts: 90 | Registered: Oct 2013
Rabecca
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys. It was just so shocking. Hugs Back to you Drowinginitall. What anniversary if you don't mind me asking?


D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)

Posts: 63 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Rabecca
Drowninginitall
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Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, November 12th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't had the time and mental clarity to even write a bio yet. Married 13 yrs, together better part of 19. 3 DC 5yr olds and a 2yr old.

Posts: 90 | Registered: Oct 2013
Rabecca
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Member # 41076
Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. None of us want to be here but I am grateful we all can be here for each other.


D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)

Posts: 63 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Rabecca
Raven96
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Rabecca and DIA)))


Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?

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