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User Topic: Not good at hiding his tracks...
LA44
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went to my car to get something and noticed a brown paper bag. I grabbed it and well, bc I am who I am I looked inside thinking there could be part of a treat in there. Nope. It was a small container of chutney. I recognized it. The chutney goes with a samosa. They sell these at the farmers market which takes place every Wed.

And...... one of my fav. artisans sells her goods there. My H was just out with our son for over an hour.

I smell an Anniversary gift!

LA Sleuth


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 1809 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
Nest2007
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lol, the good old infidelity sleuthing skill, taking the surprise out of surprises forever more! Enjoy whatever gift comes your way ;-)

[This message edited by Nest2007 at 8:19 PM, November 13th (Wednesday)]


BS 35
WS 31
DD, only child
DDay: 06/09/13
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13

Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.

Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.


Posts: 230 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Here and there...
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage




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musiclovingmom
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I read the title of this post, my heart fell. I was instantly so sad for you. I'm relieved it wasn't at all what I was thinking. Enjoy!

Posts: 882 | Registered: Jan 2013
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Same here. I felt sick. So happy it's a good thing.


FWW 40's, BH (knight) 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and a dog

Posts: 1078 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
disillusioned12
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Member # 37542
Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yum. :)


BS (Me)
WS (STBXH)
Married 2 yrs; Together 6 yrs

D-Day 11/14/12
EA(PA?)
Limbo 1 month
False R 2 months.
Status: Divorce on hold


Posts: 228 | Registered: Nov 2012
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stop looking and let him surprise you, you little shit!!

Enjoy the anticipation!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3263 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
LA44
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Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oh! Sorry guys for worrying you!!! I guess I have been looking at too many newspaper stands with their tawdry headlines.

haha, Karma! I am a little shit when it comes to sleuthing gifts but honest to Pete! It was just a small brown lunch bag. Had they chucked the chutney...I never would have known!

[This message edited by LA44 at 8:02 AM, November 14th (Thursday)]


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 1809 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
blakesteele
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I read the title of this post, my heart fell. I was instantly so sad for you. I'm relieved it wasn't at all what I was thinking. Enjoy!

Same here. I felt sick. So happy it's a good thing.

ME TOO!!!! I couldn't open your post fast enough....dang you LA44!!!

Congratulations....and it is fun to have GOOD surpises, isnt it? It was a good surprise for me to open this post and see the true nature of it!

God be with us all.

[This message edited by blakesteele at 8:38 AM, November 14th (Thursday)]


ME: 42 BH
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012 by 1 email to OM...OM did NOT respond.
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred...may never incur.

Posts: 2711 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You scared me!

Happy anniversary!


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6171 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
blakesteele
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Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The nature of this post reminds me of one of my favorite country music singer...Kenny Chesney...and his song "The Boys of Fall".

Specifically this lyric.....

"You mess with one man, you got us all."

I see this time and again on SI...when one of us stumbles, the rally around us is awe inspiring.

Needless to say....we got your back LA44!

Peace to us all.

[This message edited by blakesteele at 10:32 AM, November 14th (Thursday)]


ME: 42 BH
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012 by 1 email to OM...OM did NOT respond.
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not yet incurred...may never incur.

Posts: 2711 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
LA44
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh thanks Blake and all of my SI friends. I am sooooo sorry to scare you and will watch my titles from here on out!

Got your back(s) too!


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 1809 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have ruined more presents and surprises since Dday than I care to admit....

We have a deal now, I am not allowed to snoop in his 3 hiding spots for gifts a month before my birthday, anniversary, or Christmas.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 6631 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
cinnamongurl
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh LA, when I read your title, my heart skipped a beat! Thank goodness! So happy to hear it's good news!


Me: 36 fWGF He: 35 BBF and my heart
Together 17 yrs. "You were sick, but now you're well again, and there's work to do."
Kurt Vonnegut



Posts: 461 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: home with my heart.
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