I wanted to tell everyone in R forum goodbye. After a rocky two years, H and I have decided to end our marraige.. I say we've decided, I've actually decided, and basically he doesn't want me to hurt anymore so he's letting go gracefully.
H has moved into upstairs room. I'll be moving out of our home between Christmas and New Years. There's no bitterness or rancor, just a sad recognition that some things just can't be overcome. It's as amicable a split as there could be, for which I am grateful. I'll be moving my postings to divorce/separation forum.
This turned out to be a dealbreaker for me. I can at least say I hung in for almost two years and tried my dead level best to get through this. But I just can't.
The main emotions are sadness, and a strange relief.
I want to wish everyone in R forum the absolute best in their journeys and hope to see none of you in D/S forum!Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.
Divorce final 2/10/14.
Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.