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User Topic: Wading into my new Forum home
PhoenixRising88
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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, I pulled the plug on my marriage this week. I will be moved out by new years eve; possibly sooner if we can untangle all the joint stuff before then. It's an amicable split fortunately, no drama or tension. The two main feelings I feel are some sadness and a lot of relief.

I will be staying with my mom for a while and once I get some financial stuff squared away I'll get my own place and focus on making me a better me. I want to write another book, more poetry, more songs. I want to read more. I want to finish my degree. I want to learn how to play the dulcimer, and learn how to garden without killing plants (I once managed to kill a cactus -how sad is that??).

Most importantly - I'm not scared to be alone anymore. Actually I'm looking forward to it in a strange way. I spent so much of my life in relationships going along to get along, not making waves, because I didn't want to be alone. It's going to be a nice change to not do that anymore.

Anyways, Hi ya'll!


Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.


Posts: 426 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
EvenKeel
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome Wanna!

Although it sucks and is so hard, it sounds like you are in a good place mentally. That is 95% of the battle right there.

It is great you guys are able to work through it amicably too.


Eyes are useless if the mind is blind.


Posts: 2100 | Registered: May 2009 | From: Pa
phmh
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome! Look forward to seeing more of you down here!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


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