A year of false R. I grew and worked, he didn't. He took off his wedding ring during an alcoholic relapse, I packed and left the next day. I went back 8 weeks later, working hard
"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."
I wish you nothing but peace and I hope it comes for you very soon. Hugs to you.
After the initial questions were answered, I found that asking the open-ended question, "Tell me something you haven't told me before about the A" was effective. It was fascinating to hear the things that were on his mind.
After Dday, I was too traumatized to ask for a timeline but I did create my own with a calendar, credit card receipts, phone info, etc. This spurred more questions.