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Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ama- if you need anything, LMK, ok?

You just gotta be ok...you have too many adventures ahead of you!


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11010 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Ama))))

Sending you major mojo, strength and positive, healing thoughts.

((((Ama))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2538 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry I'm just glomming on to this now. Sending tons of strength and mojo.

(((Ama)))


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16469 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just went through this myself-- I had to get a "moderately dysplastic nevus" excised completely because the first biopsy didn't get all of it, and if left behind, it could ostensibly turn into cancer some day (or not).

Anyway, I was on pins and needles for about 2 1/2 months because that's how long it took for the plastic surgery consult, then the surgery, then the results to come in. But they got all of it, and there wasn't anything else in there to worry about.

So, I'm sending you some of that mojo-- you're just having preventative work done so that you don't experience a "some day."


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3546 | Registered: Oct 2011
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending all the mojo I can muster. Fingers crossed, positive thoughts!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 4933 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
dameia
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ama))) Sending prayers and mojo your way


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz


Posts: 1102 | Registered: Jul 2012
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://thedoghousediaries.com/5468


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13572 | Registered: Jul 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Ama)))) Sending you everything I've got.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24462 | Registered: Aug 2011
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Ama....((((Amazonia))) I'm sorry, how scary! But "yet" is promising because that means they are catching whatever quickly and will monitor. Sending you positive healing energy.....


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15119 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just to update:

I had surgery this morning. My doctor/specialist was able to squeeze me in before another surgery, instead of scheduling me for January like he should have. This way I can still move around the world in a few weeks.

Everything went smoothly. Doctor said that the surgery was exactly what he expected, abnormal cells were exactly where he'd seen them and he was able to remove them quickly and easily. I was in surgery for about 10 minutes, then an hour or so in the recovery room. By the time they woke me up, the anesthesia had more or less left my system and I've been resting at home and taking care of piles of paperwork since 10 this morning.

My follow up is in two weeks, and that should clear me to fly.

Thanks for all the healthy mojo. I feel peace about this, and my doctor seemed pretty confident when he called me to check in a few hours ago.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That sounds very positive!! I hope the universe doesn't interfere any more in your plans.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6311 | Registered: Jan 2011
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad things went well. Extra good health mojo headed your way.

Posts: 3278 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Really glad everything went smoothly this morning, Ama. Be gentle with yourself as you heal. No pushing, ok?

((((hugs))))


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have been on my mind. So glad it went well and the surgeon is comfortable with results. I, too, have had several dysplasias removed, but not so young. Of course, you are so wise to be hyper vigilant! Truly the key...

Holding you in the *LIGHT*


Me-BS-60-Can't tell you how painful it was to change this number!
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 3289 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad everything went smoothly. I hope this never darkens your doorstep again.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3337 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Why??
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, December 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just catching up on SI. I'm sorry to hear about all this but glad to hear the surgery went well and things are sounding positive.

Sending you continued healing mojo and good luck mojo for your new career/adventure


"Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."

Posts: 1850 | Registered: Feb 2008
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you had done, what I think you did--add a multivitamin to your daily routine. It's supposed to help keep abnormal incidences down.
(I went through this 9 yrs ago)

And if I'm wrong about what it was, I hope your follow up goes smoothly and you're able to continue with your plans/dreams with no further bumps on the course! (I wish you the best, regardless of whether I'm right or wrong!)


[This message edited by itainteasy at 8:56 AM, December 5th (Thursday)]


Posts: 3311 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
confused615
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Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((((Ama)))))))))


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7161 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ama)))

Sending lots of healing vibes and good mojo for your worldly adventures.


Growing forward

Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2011
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks all! I'm doing really well. Aside from the nightly antibiotic cream routine, its like nothing even happened. I go in Wednesday for a post op appointment to confirm all is well.

As for vitamins, I just finished eight rounds of vaccinations for the move, so I've been popping a handful of vitamins every morning for 2 months to boost my immune system. In theory, it's already the strongest it's ever been.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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