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User Topic: Well, fuck me gently, she's an idiot
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And 5454 nailed it:

In all of her history with you, has she ever displayed true empathy? Concern for another human being without regard to how she will look?

She had no concern for other humans, even when I thought she was being nice!

The computer is now hers, and so is the house it is in. I have no control over this. Whether what she says is true or not, these circumstances make it practically true: I don't have those pictures anymore, and probably won't see them again.

Fuck!

She is VERY good at being a manipulative twat.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gone my ass. She is just sticking it to you yet again. She may have deleted the account. But those pictures are backed up somewhere. In reality I'm sure there were some very unflattering pics of her that are A related. Possible nudes, possible pics with OM, but A related indeed. She is most likely afraid you will find them. And that's if the account is even closed as she states. She aint gonna let you go anywhere near her PC or photos.


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Default  Posted: 6:17 PM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My guess is she just told you the photos are gone so she won't have to share them with you. She has them... Pics of her babies? You betcha.

But she doesn't want YOU to have them, so they conveniently got erased. Huh. I hope someday she morphs into a less bitchy woman and gives you access to the photos of your kids.


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Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I keep saying, "Nothing she does would surprise me anymore." But then it's like she hears me, and sees that as a challenge.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1883 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
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Default  Posted: 6:52 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This fuckwit never ceases to amaze me. If stooping to a new low were an olympic sport she would be a world champion.

I'm sorry friend. If it is true then leave her to explain herself to your boys.

I'm thinking bad thoughts about her tonight. Bad JuJu from the Southern Hemisphere is not a good thing. Nasty, nasty POS.


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Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Amen, sister.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1883 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
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Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey, pass - if you put a call out to your friends and relatives, you might get pictures of your kids back from them that you shared along the way.

My sister did this after her moving van caught fire and destroyed all her photo albums.


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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good idea, NIK. I've done that, and have already gotten a bunch emailed to me. The memories are flooding in. Thanks!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1883 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As I said, I've started to receive some pictures from my family and friends. Some of them, of course, have The Princess in them.

Now, I've spent the last 20 years thinking I was LUCKY to have her, and of course hoping that I wouldn't do anything to screw it up. And she is pretty by times, BUT she is not smiling in any of the pictures she is in with me or the kids. She looks like she is ENDURING us. I had never noticed this before, but it probably started the first time that I told her that her smile brings me so much joy! She wouldn't want to do that.

However, in my online dating adventures, the quickest thing to get me to say "Next!" was to see someone with no smile in any of their pictures. Even though I hadn't really noticed this in The Princess, I guess I had subconsciously figured it out. She was/is a foul person, and I will not put up with that again - even from someone I'm just dating casually!

Feeling some empowerment this week!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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