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User Topic: Does S help you heal?
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a textbook remorseful H. But I'm in so much pain. A mind that never stops. A mind that often wonders 'what if' about S. But I know once those words are spoken they can never be taken back.

So. Does S help you to heal? Will it help me to have days not consumed by thought of the A?

BS 35
WS 31
DD, only child
DDay: 06/09/13
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13

Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.

Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.

Posts: 230 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Here and there...
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes!!! It forces you to start detaching. To take care of yourself. To take all that crazy energy off of him and put it towards something productive: healing yourself and moving forward.

You can read more about it in the healing library I think. Or google detaching.


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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

S helps unbelievably. It will give you time to breathe

"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

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