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User Topic: Appeal window closed today...
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Been waiting, with my breath held, ever since XPOS sent that remarkably stupid text on the day of our hearing last month that he "changed his mind and would notify the court that he wanted a divorce and not a dissolution." Well, he had 30 days to appeal the dissolution, and that window closed permanently today. There have been no filings according to the appeals court website. I didn't think he would actually do anything, but since his stupid brain cells have obviously taken over what was left of his normal functioning brain cells over the past few months, I simply wasn't sure what idiotic move he would make next.

Looks like the dissolution sticks, as is, and I can relax! Woo Hoo!

Now that is done, I will be calling XMIL in the next few days for the last time to let her know this changes nothing between her and the kids and that she is welcome in my home any time. She will never come (too elderly, too far to travel), but I want to at least make the offer so she understands this is between me and her d-bag, juvenile son and I don't hold anything against her.

Party time!!

ETA: I keep hearing the "Ding dong the witch is dead" song from the Wizard of Oz in the back of my brain, but the wording is changed to "Ding dong the dick is dead..." Where THAT came from I have no idea!

[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 7:47 PM, November 19th (Tuesday)]


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 945 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
jemimapd
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay, yep it must have been in the back of your mind however small the possibility.

Congratulations!


Jemima Puddleduck is a trusting soul....
DD 1 Dec 2012; Divorced 11/13; 2 children
Me: BS (47) Him: WH (52) Her: 3 PA's
Ex bought a house, The Money Pit With Mold That Will Never Be Finished. He's living in the basement.

Posts: 726 | Registered: Dec 2012
lifestoshort
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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thats awesome. My ex sent me an appeal on the 30th day. so he waited till the last second


6/07 EX had several Emotional/sexual A
FALSE Reconciles. cheats again. D 5/09
2013- 10 month marriage &D to friend. he was a lyin, freeloadn biploar mess.
NOW? Living my life and loving it.


Posts: 677 | Registered: Mar 2008
Take2
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats and Whew! Great News!! Time to celebrate!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4112 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
dmari
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Default  Posted: 1:00 AM, November 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YES!!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Mediation date: 7/10/14 and 7/22/14
Final final court date: Oct 2014

Posts: 2106 | Registered: Oct 2012
5454real
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Default  Posted: 1:08 AM, November 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ETA, having been appealed all the way to the state supreme court, all I can say is YAY!!!!

[This message edited by 5454real at 1:11 AM, November 20th (Wednesday)]


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2534 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
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