Nope, I better not post that. Could be used to prove premeditation.
All I can do is tell my kids over and over and over what is appropriate touch and what is not and that they always, always tell me if someone touches them they shouldn't. I had strict rules that they were NOT to sleep with any adult on their trip in the summer. But a 3 year old isn't going to argue with adults she trusts.
This upcoming visit is very suspicious and WXH is acting very, very odd about it in his emails with me. I'm very, very nervous that he may be moving back here, in which case he'd see the kids a few times a year, instead of once every 2 or 3. That just can't happen. It just can't.