I think this means that the two of you need to schedule some time to be with each other outside the hustle and bustle of life. The stress has him exhausted and you insecure. Take a evening to just be with each other to do something together as a couple.
I can understand that this might be hard right now especially if you are angry over missing the cruise (I would be). See what is possible for you to do. AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.