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User Topic: He was going to kidnap my kids
peridot
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Default  Posted: 10:56 PM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm struggling with whether or not I should contact the OW. This is the OW that threw my DD up against a wall and was mean to my kids.

I thought I knew where he lived. It turned out to be an old address. Do I contact her to try and find out where he is living. It would help to have an address if he ever did some how manage to kidnap the kids.

He also is still responsible for paying out of pocket expenses. Though, after hearing he wants to kidnap my kids, maybe I should cut off all contact and just not worry about the bills anymore. It's not like he's going to pay them anyway.

I'd also like to find out anything else I can about him trying to take my kids.

I just don't know if I should contact her. Thoughts?


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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Default  Posted: 12:38 AM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you have corroboration that this is true? I know your X is an ass, but the OW is a criminal herself. I wouldn't trust her as far as I could throw her. Don't contact; use whatever means you have to find info on your own or through trusted sources.


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peridot
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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't have proof of anything. I have been on their Facebook pages trying to figure out what's going. The OW said he took her son(theirs together).

The new girlfriend, who he lives with, is posting all kinds of shit on her page. Including pics from the time my XH had their kid. So I do really believe he had him. Whether or not he just took off with him is another story.

I really think I need to stay far as hell away from this. The OW and her family are on Facebook talking about beating the shit out of this girl. They are all crazy enough to do it.

I know who this new girl is. It's someone he dated in high school.

I think karma is finally coming full circle.

The OW is on there posting how he's a married man, etc. What the fuck does she think he was when she shacked up with him!

After seeing all this crap on Facebook I really think I should just stay the hell away from it all. I can probably find out his new address on my own. I know what town he lives in.

He made threats to take the kids away a long time ago. I have really done all I can to make sure that never happens.

Think I'll get the popcorn out, watch the show and enjoy some of this karma going around.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pass the popcorn peridot

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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pass the popcorn peridot

Posts: 2486 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...and my dog...
peridot
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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Passing the popcorn!


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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