This woman sounded like a dude. The disparity between the two of us is so great that it would be rude, catty and ungracious of me to ever comment on her looks again. I felt a little sad after I left because I felt that my XWH must have been feeling pretty low to turn to that during our marriage. I just didn't know he was that vulnerable and had such low standards. Anywhoooo... valuable lessons learned. Onward and upward!!! I texted my friends, but they don't understand any infidelity related angst.
I just didn't know he was that vulnerable and had such low standards
Anywhoooo... valuable lessons learned.
[This message edited by gma56 at 4:40 PM, November 23rd (Saturday)]
He didn't always have low standards. He picked the best when he picked you. It was when he decided to find someone who would fuck his sorry, married ass that his standards were forced into a nosedive.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous
I was one who put together a gallery gma is referring to after digging up a few pics of x's many 'lovelies' online.
She and I shared that special bond of having been married to sick freaks who just kept hoovering up those bottomfeeders and man, it was a mindfuck to see those pics and realize that that's what they were up to when our backs were turned.
She is absolutely right when she says self-care is #1 after making it through that shitstorm.
Onward and upward and all that.