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Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One thing that's been very strange and a little bit hard is to be evasive, in the name of self-protection.

I was raised, above all else, never, ever to lie. to omit, to deceive in any way was big trouble.

In this new vortex that I've been thrust into-the world of divorce-it is imperative that I play my cards close at hand. There are spies out there disguised as friends and it's not easy to figure out who is who, so being evasive seems best, at present.

I'm also learning the same when having to have any contact with Perv and it's been a feat and a half. But I did it. Answered questions with words that have no meaning. Or gave run around answers like he did/does.

It wasn't met with a very positive reaction, but hey...them's the breaks.


Ashland 13

You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2289 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
Thefly559
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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes it is a vicious game we have to play now and knowing who to trust is easy . TRUST NOBODY. For me I trusted so many in the beginning that betrayed me. It's easier to get rid of all those against me then to try to figure out who is real and who is not. Just my opinion. You sound like you are doing a great job at the game. You should be proud. I followed your story a little and you have come very far. Good for you. ,!! Caio!


"what does not kill you , makes you stronger"

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