On dday, I found a pic of ME that my WH took and sent to someone on craigslist. Yes, I knew he took the pic. NO, I did NOT know it was sent to someone else. I thought,at the time, it was a pic for my husband.
Please stop assuming his wife is ok with this. Sorry, but really?? Just because her WH is a sleaze doesn't mean she is...or a great many BS's would be considered sleazy by association..right??
I can tell you when I found out he sent a pic of me to a stranger, I felt violated. It is one of the few things I can NOT get past...even 3 years later.
Yes..I let him take the pic...yes,I am a little freaky(with MY HUSBAND ONLY)...that does NOT mean I was ok with him sending a pic of me to anyone.
Either her husband sent it to your WH and this is something the two of them do..which,BTW, if you let your WH take pics of you, or if you have in the past, there's an excellent chance your WH has sent pics of you to this buddy.
Or, because you don't even recognize the number that sent the pic, maybe this is his wife,and SHE sent the pic.
But to jump to the conclusion that she is ok with her husband sending out pics of her without even really knowing this woman is unfair.
I would HATE to think of some poor BW coming across that pic that my husband sent of me..and having her assume I was just fine with it.
Confront your husband..or don't and start watching him again. Either he is involved in some VERY inappropriate behavior..and/or he is having an affair with this woman.
BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: R? I don't know..ask me tomorrow..it changes rapidly.
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
