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User Topic: Filed today
PhoenixRising88
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Filed the papers today and took the first load of stuff to my Mom's.

Gave STBX his copy of initial petition and he signed the Answer and folks, he's not really taking this well at all.

It doesn't change my mind at all but I do feel a little sorry for him....

And then I think about everything that he did and you know what? He'll get over it....


Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.


Posts: 426 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
PurpleBirch
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Member # 39170
Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You and me both. I told WH the other day that I know he's upset about my not agreeing to pushing back the court date, but I can no longer make decisions based on how he feels (even if I feel sorry for him). I didn't mention that last part, btw.

Stay strong! Do what's best for you even though he may have a hissy fit.


Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner


Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 1:35 AM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you. That takes a lot of courage. (((HUGS)))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9674 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
stronger08
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Default  Posted: 3:31 AM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stay the course my friend. Don't concern yourself with how your WH feels. Keep in mind that he knew prior to cheating that D was a possible outcome. But he chose to cheat anyway. He like all WS need to experience the consequences of their actions.


You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

Posts: 5658 | Registered: Nov 2007
WeepingBuddhist
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Member # 39139
Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you!


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 562 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
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