Topic: The fog might be lifting
Member # 34146
| Posted: 8:35 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013|
What a fabulous update!!!
Happy Thanksgiving (and I can't stop smiling from reading this -- so happy for you!)
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo
Posts: 3101 | Registered: Dec 2011
Member # 40761
| Posted: 8:42 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013|
SO AWESOME. Happy fucking thanksgiving!!! Thanks for sharing and happy for you!
me: BS 39 | stbxWH: 46
DDAY: Aug12... A continued "underground"
Separated Nov13- OC due June14
Posts: 114 | Registered: Sep 2013
Member # 23890
| Posted: 8:55 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013|
Awesome update!! So happy for you!! Happy Thanksgiving!
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
Posts: 4099 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
Member # 32554
| Posted: 10:29 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013|
How Fucktard Fred thinks of me now:
How I react now when I think of FTFred:
How I wanted to react when the judge handed out his rulings:
How I did react when the judge turned his head:
The effect of today's court date on FTFred:
The effect of today's court date on Hello Kitty:
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
Posts: 8792 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Member # 34697
| Posted: 10:39 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013|
That fucker got the shit slapped out of him!!!
Happy for you BG and raising my beer this evening to you!!
That. Guy. Got. Fucked.
Posts: 4205 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Member # 34477
| Posted: 10:40 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013|
That's wonderful news! I'm so happy for you and glad you will be having a wonderful thanksgiving.
Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012
My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.
Posts: 547 | Registered: Jan 2012
Member # 33129
| Posted: 12:37 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013|
divorced the Dooosh
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
Posts: 3240 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: ATX
Member # 31468
| Posted: 12:40 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013|
Together 9 yrs
Status: Divorced 4/27/11
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling
Posts: 4160 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Member # 34823
| Posted: 12:45 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013|
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Posts: 7254 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Member # 35229
| Posted: 2:24 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013|
I'll join that conga line - WOOWHOO!!
We aint in Kansas no more, fucker!
ps. I'm loving the new GIF-tastic NG. L.O.V.I.N.G.
ETA just saw this:
That. Guy. Got. Fucked.
[This message edited by SBB at 7:04 AM, November 28th (Thursday)]
Sending all of the love and strength I can muster to Phoenix1 and her family.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."
Posts: 4570 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 38271
| Posted: 5:47 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013|
That. Guy. Got. Fucked.
Happy Thanksgiving BG
BW,me - 46
STBXH - 47
When a person shows you who they are, believe them - Maya Angelou
Posts: 422 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Member # 38377
| Posted: 8:27 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013|
And yeah, as the ultimate blameshifter, taking no responsibility for himself, I'm sure he's telling everyone today, "I was in the pool!!!"
Couldn't have done it without you guys.
Happy Thanksgiving to you all!!
[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 9:06 AM, November 28th (Thursday)]
BW~ 35, Two Darling Sons~ 10 and 6
Filed D 11/2012
Posts: 1376 | Registered: Feb 2013
Member # 34373
| Posted: 9:08 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013|
LOVE LOVE LOVE this update. Congrats BG
Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 11
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Posts: 1484 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Member # 22870
| Posted: 8:39 PM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013|
What a jagoff! Love it.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 7038 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 33226
| Posted: 8:54 PM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013|
What a fabulous (if not aggravatingly overdue) outcome!!! Big hooray!
I think my own leg would find a way to kick my ass if I did that.
Yeah. That made the quote thread.
You can call me NIK
There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox
Posts: 22710 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 30631
| Posted: 10:51 AM, November 29th (Friday), 2013|
Love when Karma steps in shaking her finger saying "No!, I don't think so!, Not this time Ass Hole!"
In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.
Always, tell the other BS! Always!
"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!
Posts: 855 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
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