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User Topic: The fog might be lifting
phmh
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a fabulous update!!!

Happy Thanksgiving (and I can't stop smiling from reading this -- so happy for you!)


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3266 | Registered: Dec 2011
prowoman
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SO AWESOME. Happy fucking thanksgiving!!! Thanks for sharing and happy for you!


me: BS 39 | stbxWH: 46
DD14, DS2
DDAY: Aug12... A continued "underground"
Separated Nov13- OC due June14

Posts: 118 | Registered: Sep 2013
Take2
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome update!! So happy for you!! Happy Thanksgiving!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4112 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How Fucktard Fred thinks of me now:

How I react now when I think of FTFred:

How I wanted to react when the judge handed out his rulings:

How I did react when the judge turned his head:

The effect of today's court date on FTFred:

The effect of today's court date on Hello Kitty:


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9237 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That fucker got the shit slapped out of him!!!
Hell yeah!!
Happy for you BG and raising my beer this evening to you!!
That. Guy. Got. Fucked.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4539 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
courageous
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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's wonderful news! I'm so happy for you and glad you will be having a wonderful thanksgiving.


Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.


Posts: 616 | Registered: Jan 2012
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 12:37 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome sauce!!!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3517 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
persevere
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Default  Posted: 12:40 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

GREAT update!!!


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4365 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 12:45 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7680 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
SBB
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Default  Posted: 2:24 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll join that conga line - WOOWHOO!!

We aint in Kansas no more, fucker!

ps. I'm loving the new GIF-tastic NG. L.O.V.I.N.G.

ETA just saw this:

That. Guy. Got. Fucked.

[This message edited by SBB at 7:04 AM, November 28th (Thursday)]


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5397 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
jackie89
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Default  Posted: 5:47 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That. Guy. Got. Fucked.

Happy Thanksgiving BG


Separated - working on R

Posts: 451 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 8:27 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone!

And yeah, as the ultimate blameshifter, taking no responsibility for himself, I'm sure he's telling everyone today, "I was in the pool!!!"

Couldn't have done it without you guys.

Happy Thanksgiving to you all!!

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 9:06 AM, November 28th (Thursday)]


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 6

Posts: 1990 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOVE LOVE LOVE this update. Congrats BG


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1673 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a jagoff! Love it.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7413 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a fabulous (if not aggravatingly overdue) outcome!!! Big hooray!

Also?

I think my own leg would find a way to kick my ass if I did that.

Yeah. That made the quote thread.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24379 | Registered: Aug 2011
fourever
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love when Karma steps in shaking her finger saying "No!, I don't think so!, Not this time Ass Hole!"


In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!


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