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User Topic: OW friend sent me message on FB
feelingfoolish
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't recognize the name and went to click on "Deny" but hit the 'Message" button instead.
Pictures of the OW and WH popped up. The picture was from back in the summer.


I can't do this any longer. Me and WH are in R or maybe we're not.. I don't want to live with this shit the rest of my life. How will i ever get this sick feeling to go away if OW won't go away?

I am feeling very frustrated.


me-44y
H-45y M-12 yrs
2 DS-21,15

06.30.12-- full PA with 24y ho-worker
08.16.12 DDay #2-are you f**king kidding me?
R-??? trying
07.21.13-Dday #3-filed for divorce the next day
R #2-hopeful but cautious.


Posts: 522 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: emerald city, oz
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, before you unfriend her, do be sure to comment about how nice the OW looks after her intensive STD treatments and how happy you are that the open sores on her face have now closed up.

Or you can do the healthy thing and just unfriend and block her ho-friend.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4568 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
feelingfoolish
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I did deny the friend request. Hate that I did that because now i can't see the picture. It was my intention to show it to WH .

It sucks taking the 'high road'!!! I so badly want to act like a real crazy woman. It's getting difficult to continue to do the right thing.

Please talk some sense into me becuz right now I am feeling the urge to lower myself to her level.

And that level, my friends, is quite low.

[This message edited by feelingfoolish at 2:32 PM, November 27th (Wednesday)]


me-44y
H-45y M-12 yrs
2 DS-21,15

06.30.12-- full PA with 24y ho-worker
08.16.12 DDay #2-are you f**king kidding me?
R-??? trying
07.21.13-Dday #3-filed for divorce the next day
R #2-hopeful but cautious.


Posts: 522 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: emerald city, oz
Eudaimonia
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Member # 32445
Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I believe that THAT is what the people on NPD boards refer to as their "flying monkeys."

And then I noticed where your profile says you are from. ((((feelingfoolish))))

Dear lawdy, what is WRONG with these people???!!!


So long, and thanks for all the fish!

Posts: 472 | Registered: Jun 2011
MOTG
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What if OW friend doesn't know all the details and was trying to do the right thing? I know it would still make me sick but maybe she was having a moment on conscience and wanted to let the truth be known?


Me: 33 mother to 2 girls
Him: 1 PA and 2 EA
Us: together 9 years married 5 years. Trying to work through this.
I refuse to commemorate D-Day

Posts: 75 | Registered: Jun 2012
sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The goal is to make you feel bad. Its stupid and childish. When I was filing some court documents a couple years ago, the person behind the counter once worked with kids. She said boys duke it out and that is it; its over. Girls give each other eating disorders. If you so much as look her way, she wont stop. If you want her to go away ignore. Remember what they say about kids and negative attention: it attention, period.


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not

Posts: 8210 | Registered: Sep 2007
painfulpast
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So this is how she and her friends get their kicks? By sending you pictures like that? Where do these morons get their ideas from?

Why isn't she embarrassed? Honestly, why isn't she thinking "Wow, he said he didn't like his wife and he cheated on her, and yet he's with her, and here I am, alone and still thinking about him." What a bitch she is.

Unless you have a very tall ladder to climb back up, don't bother with them. Block, block, block.


Love leads to tears, tears lead to sadness, sadness to memories, memories to madness

Posts: 1686 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: East Coast
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