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User Topic: She's selling stuff
JustForgave
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So WH's OW2 makes "jewelry." Really what she does is string a bunch of store-bought beads together and CALLS it jewelry.

I just discovered tonight that she's selling the stuff on a popular site.

I kind of want to PM her and ask her stuff like, "Do you hand-cast the pendants and make the beads yourself? Or are these things I can put together on my own at home with $6 worth of equipment?"

I really, really hate her. I'm aiming for indifference, but really missing the mark, so far.


Me: 47
FWH: 39 (SI username: Bumbling)
DD: 10

DDay #1: June 9, 2012
Dday #2 (TT): November 29, 2012
DDay #3 (The BIG one, ALL the TT): March 30, 2013
False R: June 12, 2012 - March 21, 2013
REAL R: March 21, 2013 - present


Posts: 252 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Texas
hardtimesinlife
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Default  Posted: 10:34 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Really what she does is string a bunch of store-bought beads together and CALLS it jewelry.

As funny as this is, indifference will come only after you force yourself not to look her up. It is probably going to be hard. I remember thinking that if I kept an eye on an OW then I was protecting myself. In my case I was always watching the wrong one. It isn't easy but you can do it. Leave her to her dollar store jewels. I'm sure she won't make enough money to cover the inventory sitting in her closet.


Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)

Posts: 5957 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Florida
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ig.Nore.Her.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCyL6pa_L4M


Posts: 7247 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
sinsof thefather
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Default  Posted: 5:30 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Do you hand-cast the pendants and make the beads yourself? Or are these things I can put together on my own at home with $6 worth of equipment?"

Nevermind her jewelry's worth - this quote is PRICELESS!

JustForgave, ignore her or better yet, laugh at her. She won't get it no matter what you say to her. Unrepentant unicorn riders only see what they want to and in her eyes right now she's making pwetty wainbows!

Just laugh and leave her to it.


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

Posts: 1740 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
AML04
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Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ha!! I could've written this post but OW does "photography" and makes hand painted frames/cigar boxes/bottle caps she calls heirlooms! I shit you not!

I know I have to stop looking her up, it's just so damned hard! The one good thing about it is I found out she got arrested and has had two pets die (sad for the pets, although they're probably in a better place). Talk about karma.


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
T-13 M-9
DDay 5/26/13, TT through ???
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13.
Hopeful for R

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