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User Topic: people never change
eyenight
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Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wake up to someone knocking on my door . it was army. he was a wreck. he was at training for the past few weeks and was suppose to be there for another day but they finished ahead of schedule. he drove all night to surprise his wife.
he walked in and found.her in bed with.the base play boy.
He left and had no where to go. so he came over here.
i calmed him down enough to get him to agree to go to the hospital and get admitted cause he said he was thinking of ending his life. I called. his command and some.of his.friends and let them know what was going on his people are withi hate.to say.it.but i told him so. i asked him where his kids are.and they are.with the grandparents a few.states away. him now figuring out what.to.do.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:45 PM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Eyenight - You did the right thing getting him to the hospital and then notifying his people.

I know you care about him, but please tell me you won't let yourself get pulled into his mess?


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

100% agree with Nik. Don't get sucked in. He's a big boy and you do NOT need his drama.


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1178 | Registered: Jun 2007
eyenight
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nope just made the calls i let the hospital know he was coming and had his people deal with it. i do work tonight. So the likelyhood of me having to care.for him is pretty high. but ill talk to the.nurse in charge. about the.situation. i want to stay out of it. i do feel bad for him. but at least he's safe. his people are over talking to his wife and trying to track down the playboy. I told them not to tell her where he is. It will only make this thing worse. hopefully they listen

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you, hon.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25059 | Registered: Aug 2011
persevere
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Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You did the right thing - and keeping your distance now makes sense. Good for you.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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