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User Topic: It's my 10 year anniversary today...yay me?
ILINIA
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Default  Posted: 7:04 AM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Argh, it's here. I was so excited about 2013. We were both turning 40 and our 10 year anniversary is this year. We were going to throw a big party to celebrate all three milestones, but then dday happened in June. To avoid the family for Thanksgiving and our 10 year anniversary talk and congratulations, we decided to dissappear. We took a spur of the moment family vacation. We are at least where it is sunny and warm verses cold and snow. Well, here's to today....


Entering R slowly and cautiously...

Posts: 464 | Registered: Jul 2013
ILINIA
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Member # 39836
Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hmmm, how fitting that I'm on SI and he's still sleeping.


Entering R slowly and cautiously...

Posts: 464 | Registered: Jul 2013
LA44
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Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well yes, yay to you Ilinia bc you are a person of strength and character and your H is blessed that you are wiling to work on R.

SO, Happy Anniversary to you! (we just had our 16th and it felt weird but it wasn't awful).

I hope he cherishes you today and every day.

LA


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2287 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
forgivingnow
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Member # 33549
Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

To today, what are you grateful for-today? Wake him up and start making new memories. I know how hard this is, think about right now.
(((ILINIA)))


Me-BS 51
FWH-51
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
R

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