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User Topic: WW "didn't know what would happen". (WS welcome)
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Default  Posted: 12:16 AM, November 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think she knew. I used to tell my wife (tongue-in-cheek): I deserve at least a plausible lie.

Dday May 2000. R'ed.
People suck.

Posts: 1216 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, November 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This was me, and even in retrospect, I recall how bizarre but real the lack of planning was.

For me, it was almost like I was acting and doing thigs with no thought of consequences, no planning. I was allowing myself to stay on a runaway train and leaving everything to chance. Call it the fog, call it what you want. It was a feeling of not being in control when certainly I could have been at any time .

Me-41 FWW Him-45BH
M 13years. Reconciled.
DDay#1 Nov 2008 (OM2)
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Confessed to OM 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut

Posts: 1992 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The SouthEast
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, November 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WW used to say before that when the OP invited her at his apartment, she knew it wasn't right, but didn't knew what would happen.
So after reading all of your posts, I had another discussion with her and said that I didn't believed her. Turned out that she still say the same, but now she add that maybe she was in a kind of "fog" or that she was just fooling herself. I'm a mess right now, but sometimes I find that her mind is just a bigger mess...

ME - BS - 33
fWW - 33
Married 8 years, together 15
3 kids: 6, 4 and 2
D-Day: September 30th, 2013
She had a 6 weeks A with a COW

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