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User Topic: He almost had me on my knees....
soveryweary
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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So we were both suppose to sign and fax over our our signature page of the divorce decree.
I was all ready to send mine and he texts this morning saying he won't agree to the non modification clause and he will not get any insurance in case he dies. Said that if he's lucky enough to die before the spousal support ends, I'm shit out of luck.
After being NC for 5 weeks, I called him. I won't write anything in a text or email that can come back to haunt me.
After getting the " I'm only on 40 hours and how am I going to afford everything", I let him have it. My bad , but I told him he should maybe cut back on all the money he has been spending on his whores and save for the future .He hung up on me.
Then he text that he would meet me at the bank and sign. I printed out the papers, met him at the bank and he signed.
I ran to kinkos to fax and Fedex the papers to my lawyer.
This is the text he sent while I was facing that literally caused me to buckle.

"You are still really hot and I would love to fuck you!"

I didn't respond and received thus gem:

"I wasn't saying that to be a smart ass either. I still love you very much."

I thought he had said/done it all to me. I think he is truly insane.


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 626 | Registered: May 2011
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, stop the presses and call of the lawyers, he still thinks you're hot and he still loves you. ( Huge eye roll). Love the way he is trying to "win you back". Yup, he's a keeper

You did very well SVW. You got what you needed and ignored the crazy. Moving on


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1748 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
soveryweary
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much Irish.
I shared with my best friend and she had no words.
I knew the dear souls here would get it.:0)


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 626 | Registered: May 2011
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

he is a disgusting human being.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3332 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is a stupid piece of shit.


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 638 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
welcome14
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Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. Cause it really is the next hit of the ego kibbles, nothing related to you at all, really. If you had said yes, what a HUGE hit for him. They really don't think at all, and especially not about anything but their needs. ((hugs)) so sorry you have do deal with that fucker, but at least the divorce is almost finished...you go girl!


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


Posts: 1192 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
shiloe
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does he have an OW you can forward the text too??
One he is saying the same thing to?

Maybe she could appreciate seeing what he sent to you.

FTG

[This message edited by shiloe at 8:35 PM, November 29th (Friday)]


But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 54
Cheater -54
Married 26 yrs
DD - 21 DD -19 DS-17
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA with married ho-worker. Kicked him out, he filed

Posts: 591 | Registered: Mar 2003
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well it worked on the whore so why not take a chance on you, eh?

What a loser he is.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3575 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
SBB
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Default  Posted: 2:13 AM, November 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well it worked on the whore so why not take a chance on you, eh?

^^THIS. I think I vomited in my mouth a little.

There are no fish in this pond.
This pond has no water.
Fuck.Off.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5545 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
persevere
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Default  Posted: 2:47 AM, November 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AYFKM? Sometimes stupidity truly has no limits...


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4503 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Bravenewgirl
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Default  Posted: 5:45 AM, November 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holy sweet mother of moses, WHAT THE FUCK?

I will never understand how their minds work...never!

I think you handled it well. For example, you did not crash your car through his front door and drive over him repeatedly until he was just a stain.

This is a perfect example of why NC is a girl's (and boy's) best friend. One little encounter and he spews that douche-of-the-century gem. Unfreakingbelievable. Insane is the most apt description indeed.

WH texted me pictures of his junk throughout the aftermath of Dday, even while telling me that he he lurrrrved OW. Oh, darling, I am disappointed that you have a side-whore, but your erect penis is just soooo seductive that you can eat all the cake you want! Sheesh.

Your head is high, you did not respond (well done you!), you have what you needed, and now you can go back to ignoring the POS.

Onward.


Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty

Posts: 661 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Canada
soveryweary
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Default  Posted: 5:54 AM, November 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just think you are all the best.
Love the responses, thanks so much!!


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 626 | Registered: May 2011
Threnody
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, November 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I wanted to fuck you, too. That's why I had you sign these papers."

Okay. Maybe not. But hopefully you're smiling.

*hug*


“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

Posts: 14040 | Registered: Jun 2003 | From: Middle-of-Diddly, TX
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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, November 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SoVeryWeary...I received a similar text upon settlement of our divorce. Really sucks. It made me think he was either trying to be mean, or really was nuts enough to think I'd go for it.
I think you handled it well. For example, you did not crash your car through his front door and drive over him repeatedly until he was just a stain.

I really like this ^^^. It says so much!

Posts: 1254 | Registered: Aug 2010
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, November 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I wanted to fuck you, too. That's why I had you sign these papers."


PERFECT


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1748 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
soveryweary
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Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, November 30th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You ladies rock!!! Hysterical posts.
Thank you!!!


Divorced 1/3/14

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