I DID post it on FB after DDay #1 because I was so angry and hurt that they could do this to me and my girls. That they both had a sanctimonious attitude that they did nothing wrong and they were "meant" for each other, despite the obvious lies and manipulation they BOTH were guilty of. NO WAY was I going to let them live in the secrecy they created and therefore could justify their actions in their own little world. I let EVERYONE know who and what they BOTH were because I wanted them both to hear it from the outside world how selfish they were both being. WS liked to blame me and put her on a pedestal. Something he could do while he believed her lies. When the real world got a hold of him and told her what a jerk she really was, he slowly realized what a jerk he was being and he could no longer blame me for what he was doing.
I will NEVER feel bad for outing them publicly. And truly, I was looking into putting a freaking billboard up in our small town with both their names on it and all her Booby pictures she posted on her FB page...of the fake boobs she *claimed* she was embarrassed about.
I still want to send a private message to all our mutual friends and tell them just what she did, because I know some of them didn't see my meltdown (it was on her page and WS's page. She promptly deleted all of her stuff and went off FB for a bit, I took it off WS's page after a day because I got my point across). I did send a private message to some, who promptly took her off their friends list and told me they kept her on there mostly to watch a trainwreck, not because they were really friends with her.
I still have to see her once or twice a week for a couple minutes, and while we both keep our distance from each other; I still have an overwhelming urge to punch her right in the f'ing face. Just seeing her in person, and knowing she was my husband's GIRLFRIEND for over a year....drives me insane.
*edited to add* I DO wish I would have sent all my cell phone records to her corporate office to show them how she uses her time at work. They would text ALL DAY LONG. I can imagine how many sales they lost because she was too into her own drama to throw cold calls out. My WS was not the only person she met through her work, so I would have loved to give names (yes I have a few) to her employer and tell them how she used her job as a dating service.