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User Topic: Divorced!!!
Tripletrouble
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Member # 39169
Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, 7 months and 5 days after I found the incriminating phone records, it is all over. I was a good wife. I am a great mom. I am smart, funny, loyal, kind, and generous*. I am good with money, and I have a respectable job in my field. We have two honors students teens that are well adjusted. He threw away this charmed life, his loving wife, the respect of his children, and more than half of his assets for some skanky whores. I hope he cries into his lonely pillow nightly and that his house reeks of shame and lies.
I tried R. He could not stop lying and raged against me. I am glad I tried though, because I will never have to wonder if I did the right thing, if I walked away too soon. It gave him four more months to show me how messed up he is.
Thanks for all the support, SI friends.

* footnote: I have bad hair days, get in bad moods, swear too much, and have some annoying habits


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 610 | Registered: May 2013
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Onward you go, triple!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24216 | Registered: Aug 2011
Lola7
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Member # 41195
Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! I'm so happy for you!


caelitus mihi vires
"My strength is from heaven"
DIVORCED!

Posts: 211 | Registered: Nov 2013
sunsetslost
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Member # 39885
Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't look back. Congrats!


D Day: 7/13/13
Moving on. Every Single Day.
New beginning in progress, this time where it's warm

Posts: 672 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
MakingLemonade
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Member # 41143
Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your best years are ahead! Congrats!


Me: 40's; XBS Him: 40's; XWS/NPD/SA
D-day 1: 5/2007- A #1; 7/2007 A #1 continued-R
D-day 2: 3/2013 A #2/multi-ONSs; 4/2013 A #2 continues to present
D: 7/2013 (25 yrs together; days shy of 22nd anniversary-GOAL MET!)
Our kids: teen & tween

Posts: 168 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Southern US
lifestoshort
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Member # 18442
Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

congrats on your D. I hope it brings you some peace


6/07 EX had several Emotional/sexual A
FALSE Reconciles. cheats again. D 5/09
2013- 10 month marriage &D to friend. he was a lyin, freeloadn biploar mess.
NOW? Living my life and loving it.


Posts: 672 | Registered: Mar 2008
phmh
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Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations.

It seems like many of these waywards were living charmed lives and threw it all away for trash.

The good news is that it mostly (with some dips) only goes up from here!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3260 | Registered: Dec 2011
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!! I love your post too! Enjoy your new beginning!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Mediation date: 7/10/14 and 7/22/14
Final final court date: Oct 2014

Posts: 2075 | Registered: Oct 2012
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome to your new beginning!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4522 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
h0peless
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Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations on losing all of that useless weight! I think you'll be amazed to see what you can do without all of that wasted flesh holding you back.

Posts: 1516 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
jemimapd
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Member # 37895
Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I could have written every word. I just know that you are going to thrive once the initial shock wears off. We put so much energy and focus into these men who are fundamentally absent, selfish and immature.

(((TripleTrouble)))


Jemima Puddleduck is a trusting soul....
DD 1 Dec 2012; Divorced 11/13; 2 children
Me: BS (47) Him: WH (52) Her: 3 PA's
Ex bought a house, The Money Pit With Mold That Will Never Be Finished. He's living in the basement.

Posts: 726 | Registered: Dec 2012
RavenWood
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Member # 39847
Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations. I hope the future brings you happiness.


BS: Me (30s)
WW: Her (30s)
10 year marriage with 2 small children.
OM: Married coworker
Status: Divorced.
DDay: May 2013

Posts: 52 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: RavenWood
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have a great attitude, Trip. Congratulations!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1600 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

and have some annoying habits

Am I the only one thinking that I have a childish opinion of fidelity? Of course this is enough for an affair!

I am so sorry TT. You deserve so much better! Congrats!


BH 50, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2519 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
WeepingBuddhist
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Member # 39139
Default  Posted: 6:46 AM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


Me: BS 46
Him: LCB--lying, cheating bastard 50
D-Day 4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 462 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
ChoosingHope
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Member # 33606
Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I LOVE your post!!! Congratulations.


Posts: 1544 | Registered: Oct 2011
TrustGone
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Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome to your new beginning!!!! I hope the future only holds good things for you and your children. (((HUGS)))


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! Welcome to the other side.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9138 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
jackfish
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Member # 40257
Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All the best there Triple!

Posts: 83 | Registered: Aug 2013
hexed
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Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bad hair days are a bitch!

I recommend a good afternoon at a nice salon to help with those

Congratulations


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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