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User Topic: t/j Dr. PJ
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want to thank you. It is so reassuring to see your name pop up on threads related to health/stress. You are a voice of reason and in my head you have the absolute perfect bedside manner!

I LOVE that you are a part of this community.


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5587 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^What she said.

Posts: 11394 | Registered: Mar 2008
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I LOVE that you are a part of this community

I always appreciate reading your responses and how willing you are to share your knowledge with everyone here.


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3215 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
Pentup
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Default  Posted: 11:44 PM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ditto! Always love to see Dr PJ chime in!


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6420 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 1:06 AM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another ditto. Sorry you had to find us, but glad you are here.


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2537 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 1:33 AM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Same here!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9253 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 3:00 AM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16348 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 4:17 AM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree! I always look for your responses.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3321 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Kodi
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Default  Posted: 6:32 AM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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travels
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish she lived closer, or I lived closer to her.


When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.

Rest In Peace Bo the Beagle 1996-2011


Posts: 3754 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: PA
cayc
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Default  Posted: 7:14 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes & raised to the nth degree!


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 2999 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No kidding. I'd like to have her for a PCP.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 7795 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
SisterMilkshake
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Happy  Posted: 7:55 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I luvz herz!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9404 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, December 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I figured I wasn't the only one...


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5587 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
purplejacket4
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Content  Posted: 7:24 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You guys are all TOO kind!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2076 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 12:21 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ya know... We can all masquerade as anyone we want to be... What if she got her medical degree from Greys Anatomy and is only CALLING herself a Dr?!?!

Just kidding... But it could be true...


Indian wisdom says our lives are rivers. We are born somewhere small and quiet and we move toward a place we cannot see, but only imagine. From Tending Roses

Posts: 5991 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
gma56
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Cool  Posted: 11:41 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What if she got her medical degree from Greys Anatomy and is only CALLING herself a Dr?!?!
If it were from Grey's Anatomy, she would be making a hell alot more money with better hours and she would not have spent all those years in medical school. I also am happy you are here.

I remember when Dr PJ first came to SI and she wasn't sure if she belonged because she was betrayed by a same sex partner.
SIers assured her the pain of betrayl wasn't less or more than we had from traditional relationships.Betrayl hurts like hell.

I'm also glad you stayed around so we can see you heal and move pass the pain. It's a very long difficult journey so it's good to see members move from only seeking advice but giving it back.
SI is the best club you don't ever want to be a member of...
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

Posts: 20322 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lucky, if I were going to "pretend" to be something it would be .... A SECRET AGENT!

Being a doctor is actually fairly boring. If it wasn't for getting to teach residents and students and helping the peeps.... Meh. There is no glamour in looking at a maggot infested foot in the middle of the night. No-siree!!!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2076 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
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