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WeepingBuddhist
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Default  Posted: 5:58 AM, December 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone! It went fine, as far as those things go. He was surprised and hurt and I was worried about him. He has found a place to stay though and will be moving out. AAAAAND the married GF is still coming to visit this weekend, so he is all good! I'm fine, too and just trying to decide if I should tell the OBS.


Me: BS 46
Him: LCB--lying, cheating bastard 50
D-Day 4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 518 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
dmari
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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the update! I'm so glad to hear that you are feeling fine and that he is moving out! I've read that the OBS needs to be told.


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Mediation date: 7/10/14 and 7/22/14
Final final court date: Oct 2014

Posts: 2112 | Registered: Oct 2012
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please tell the OBS. I wish that someone had told me sooner.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3155 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:55 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How are you feeling with a little time and distances?


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future. -foulton oursler


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WeepingBuddhist
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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've heard that, too. I will be seeing my IC today and I'll talk about it. I am not sure if new girl is coming now, or not. It is selfish of me, but I know if I just leave it alone things with STBX will be easier.

Our house is pretty large, so he is in the guest room and we'll talk timelines when I get back in town on Sunday. I anticipate him moving out by the end of January. We're being civil and crying a lot.

[This message edited by WeepingBuddhist at 11:02 AM, December 5th (Thursday)]


Me: BS 46
Him: LCB--lying, cheating bastard 50
D-Day 4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 518 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
WeepingBuddhist
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hexed, I still feel totally relieved. I'm more sad than I would have imagined, though. I'm optimistic and my friends are the most fabulous people on the planet.


Me: BS 46
Him: LCB--lying, cheating bastard 50
D-Day 4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 518 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((WB)))

Yes, tell the other BS.

And ... everything is as it should be.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

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