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User Topic: What do you think that you are getting for Christmas?
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nature Girl, did you sign your kids up for an angel tree anywhere? There are people like me that it makes our Christmas to shop for a child/teen.

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

a pair of boots

jrc, Any pics?

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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

the standard present from mom - a box of honeycrisp apples from upstate NY. not expecting anything else from anyone.

NatureGirl - as suggested by pentup be sure to check into an angel tree or your town's human services dept. In my town they hold multiple different toy/gift fundraisers, with another one scheduled for tomorrow. they always have a big turnout because its for the kids.

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Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I got my gift (to myself) early... a Keurig machine. Love, love LOVE it!

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Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin

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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

..well, according to Rebreather..

"Coal for SMY" check!!!!

..I know what I want for Christmas.. and I hope my wife gives it to me..


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Default  Posted: 6:18 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We aren't exchanging gifts this year. Dh is graduating from his very long program and he's done next week!!!!
We had a finite amount of money and decided to take the kids on a trip. So this is our Christmas/Celebration trip. The kids will only get a few little things. Instead we'll get out of this cold weather and spend time together.. something there has been way too little of this year. I am really excited.

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Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nature Girl, I used to get food and gift cards from a local church for the holidays. See if it's not too late to sign up your family. I wish I had known sooner, I could have put an extra something (besides glitter) in your card.

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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

what i would like more than anything is to heal my broken shoulder so i don't need surgery. what i will probably get is a pandora bead or perfume from my dd. maybe get to see my son n grandbabies, but nana is gonna suck at the big Christmas this year. can't lift a turkey or ham, or carve a prime rib, so maybe we will start a new tradition with chicken n dumplings. if i cheat n use the frozen dumplings it will work. dont know what i will manage for crafts for grands though, we made a gingerbread house last year. any ideas for one handed holiday cheer for 5 n 7 y/os? and NG, sometimes love is the best present ever, they will always remember that far beyond the broken toys with dead batteries. maybe u have a few extra cents for some baking supplies? my kids always loved the sugar cookie decorating n candlelight service on Christmas eve.
eta: i got the christmas chipmunk! OMG... it's a

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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going to the Christmas Eve midnight bell choir service with Finally10. Spending the days with our children. Perfect. I feel blessed.

D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SO got my gift a month or so ago. We went to an auction and he got me something cool. I thought he was buying it for himself but he surprised me! It was too big to wrap so he just carried it in for me.

I love it (and him).

I think dd will get me something like a cd or a stuffed animal. Not sure, but it is never something super big. Usually delivered with a hug which is awesome.

Someone got me some cookware off my wish list- I suspect my sister-in-law.

I cheat and look to see what has been purchased.

I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.

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