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User Topic: Betrayed by my own brother!
Bigger
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Default  Posted: 4:06 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Solus Sto is one of my favorite posters here on SI. Possibly because she tends to be calm and logical in her advice. I would go back and read what she says.

So you are going to take at face value the word of a woman that has nothing to lose and is cornered, willing to slash out to hurt?

Now – I am NOT DENYING that your brother might have had sex with your wife. It won’t be the first case of “brotherly love” we have here on SI. But I would want more before taking her words at face value. There is a contradiction in divorcing a woman because she can’t stick to her vows but at the same time believing something as seriously profound as her claim of having sex with your brother. Yes – it warrants better discovery, but how would your react if she now denied having sex with your brother? Would you believe her?

IMHO you are preparing to take and make very serious decisions with extreme long-term implications based on extremely flimsy and unreliable evidence.


"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus

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Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((workforliving))) I am sorry for your pain. Wishing you peace and strength as you travel this path.


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

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OK now
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So your wife is a serial sex nymphomaniac who lied throughout your marriage, but you are prepared to believe her when she said your brother had an ONS with her. I would not be inclined to believe a word that came out of her mouth.

I'm with Bigger on this one. Consider the potential heartbreak of dividing your family.


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workforliving
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She is a liar for sure and I am going to do more discovery on this until I am 100% positive it did happen. Will not out him if I can not be beyond a shadow of a doubt but I have a gut feeling right now and it isn't good for my brother.


BS 60
WW 50
So many OM I know now I married a whore.
DIVORCING THE FUCKIN' SLUT
I refuse to have people in my life that will stab me in the back, ever!


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TheCollector
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi workinforliving,
I was asked to post here by the betrayed menz thread. First off I'm sorry your here... What I come to offer you is some music that is strikingly accurate to you. It's a 3 album long story of a man in the 17th century who is a captain and finds out his wife cheated with his own brother.

It is called "RIGHT AWAY,GREAT CAPTAIN!"
Some songs are

Blame
I'm not ready to forgive you
Anna no
Love come and save me
We were made out of lightning
Rotten black root
Cutting off the blood to ten ............especially this one
Memories from ashore part 1 AND 2............and these

ALL his songs will relate to you I promise

I hope you check this out and it helps you.


Infidelity really IS the gift that keeps on giving...

Posts: 64 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: thecollector
anewhaven
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi,

I'm so sorry you're here.

Here's a thought: you say your wife has slept with many, many men. If she's that sort of woman, she may have come on to your brother really, really strongly in a very suggestive way. I'm not giving your brother an excuse, but if he never seemed the type of man to cheat before, maybe most of this is on her.


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workforliving
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry about keeping up with posts having one F*ucked day with this crap burning holes in my brain. One day you thing well this isn't so bad the next your inside feel like they've been ripped out.

Collector will get those songs anything to help I'm way for...two times even better!

Haven the problem with my soon to be WW is she could never and I mean never say "NO" to anyone who just asked. That's right but is truth so if my brother just asked a couple of times well he got what he asked for the POS.

I am going to forget this shit tonight and drink some beers and get my ass up and karaoke...I don't care that I can't sing for crap, I am going to belt it out like I'm singing "God Bless America" at the World Series!!

Peace and Strength to Everyone here, we didn't want this shit, never thought we'd have to be here but I know I will survive...won't I...


BS 60
WW 50
So many OM I know now I married a whore.
DIVORCING THE FUCKIN' SLUT
I refuse to have people in my life that will stab me in the back, ever!


Posts: 17 | Registered: Dec 2013
doggiediva
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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sleep in tomorrow morning.... When you wake up have some time to yourself with fishing, hiking or playing with a child.. The best medicine for me has been cuddling with kitties or doggies if they were nearby...


Don't tie your happiness to the tail of somebody else's kite

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TheCollector
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How are you workforliving?
Check out the tunes?


Infidelity really IS the gift that keeps on giving...

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