I did! XWH wanted to R, really bad, but he gave up on doing the real work about 6 mos. out from Dday. I gave him another 2-1/2 years to do something. I was a mess.
June 29, 2013 I gave up and filed.
Sept 25, 2013 I was D.
Oct 7, 2013 I moved into my new house with DS.
Right now, he is a ball of nothingness. Gave up on everything. Won't take care of himself, his place or even attempt to pay bills on time. Won't keep track of his weekends with DS. Just stopped. Sad.