My SAWH has been doing some reading and mentioned "fake future" as the term for what WS use as a way of getting their AP to stay. Because after awhile, in order for the affair to continue it has to have some sort of goal, especially if the AP is a single female.
Did any WS here use "fake future" in their A? Did you actually believe what you were saying at the time or did you say things to your AP knowing you would not be following through? I'm curious about the level of detachment.