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User Topic: New Home Mojo...Please?
macakipa
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Default  Posted: 7:24 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Popping in this morning for a bit of good ol' SI peep Mojo.

At the start of November I came to the conclusion that I could not spend another holiday season in the marital home. I was not going to leave until January 2015, but being here is not promoting a healthy start to my new beginning. The memories are crippling.

So, I have been house hunting, well, more like villa/condo/townhouse hunting. At this stage of my life, with my youngest child heading off to college in the fall of 2014, I have determined that I want something low maintenance but with enough space for my children to come for visits.

I have decided to stay here in the midwest instead of heading back to the northeast for many reasons; 1. it is central to where all 4 of my children may end up living, 2. I've been here 11 years now and have a wonderful friend base, 3. cost of living etc...

Anyhoo...I believe I have found the perfect place. I am scheduled to sign a contract, to begin building, tomorrow morning. I count my blessing everyday for being in a financial position to go this route. I do not take anything for granted anymore in my life.

So...MOJO...please??


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mojo


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52682 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you all the MOJO I can this morning.

I actually think you are making a huge mistake! You should locate further south to the pleasant little town of Paducah, Kentucky!

Happy for you Macakipa. Onward and upward my dear friend..


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
macakipa
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww, Bebba, you warm my heart


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you house mojo, mac!

(ps - I've been to Paducah, bebba. Many times. Neat little town. )


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Much mojo being sent!


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
better4me
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

new house mojo being sent!

(SI g2g in Paducah??)


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3213 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
phmh
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So excited!

Also, we still have to try to meet when you visit your child at school in my hometown! I was on campus a few weeks back for a movie and thought of you.

Can't wait to see a happy response from you on this thread :)


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3409 | Registered: Dec 2011
welcome14
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mojo! and maybe the g2g not in paducah, but in grand rivers at miss patti's- best pork chop in the world!


Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


Posts: 1222 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo!!! I am in my new home for the first Holiday season. It is wonderful...a little scary ...But sooo much better!

I wish you all the luck in the world!


There is life on the other side of hell.

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traicionada
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mucho mojo!


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

Posts: 3331 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think this is just wonderful!!!
Mojo for you and your new special place


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4687 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
macakipa
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Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all and please keep that MOJO coming!

The lot I want has a contingency buyer. I signed a firm contract for the lot yesterday. The other buyer has until 11:00 a.m. CST this morning to take the contingency off or forfeit the lot.

XX Fingers are crossed XX


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crossing fingers AND toes.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So much MOJO for you. I am thrilled for you and I hope everything goes well for you. I have to say that it gives me so much hope and encouragement for my home owners dreams when I see these posts. I hope to one day be asking for mojo for myself and IrishLad


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1778 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Any update, mac?


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25776 | Registered: Aug 2011
macakipa
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Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You guys are my lucky charms...I got the lot and they begin building in March!

Wow! Happy, sad, scared, excited...

Also, we still have to try to meet when you visit your child at school in my hometown! I was on campus a few weeks back for a movie and thought of you.

phmh, my next trip there may be in Februray

Thank you all!!!


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats Maka, I am so happy, excited, thrilled for you


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1778 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Oftencheatedon
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Go for it.

I finally bought again a week before Katrina on the Gulf Coast. All I could think at the time was - karma is still kicking me in the butt.

But it ended up being okay.


Posts: 109 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: AL
Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 7:32 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Outstanding Macakipa.

Make sure there is room for my dogs and golf clubs!

Welcome14, I was supposed to eat at Patti's on Friday night, but they had to close due to weather!

Winter wonderland down here, but it is supposed to melt away this week.


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
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