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gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Downpayment on an engagement ring??


Me: Looking forward to the future
Him: Left behind in the past

Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. ~ JK Rowling


Posts: 670 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
sad12008
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Concert tickets?

Does she drive to work? Sheepskin/shearling seat cover?

Chelsea barometer?

I try to think of little luxury touches to everyday tasks or doings that one wouldn't purchase for oneself when trying to shop for the challenging people on my gift list.

Good luck!


"Everybody's life is hard. You look at life, and it's not a cakewalk. You've got to be able to bounce back." --Neil Young, father to two children with CP, another with epilepsy, and otherwise experientially qualified to comment

Posts: 3859 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Treat her to a day at the spa. I don't know any woman who wouldn't appreciate that!

Me. I don't do spas/manicures/pedicures. I've had people who don't know me very well get me gift cards for those types of things and I end up re-gifting.

My suggestion in the $200 range would be tickets to an event she would like - sporting event/concert/theatre production/etc.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

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fireproof
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Default  Posted: 12:00 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would make a picture book spanning 5 years.

I would look into the theater or a concert- possibly to her favorite performer.

I don't know how much they run but a dive suit or gear for your next trip.

A nice fallback is a gift card to her favorite store or to a restaurant.


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Audrina
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Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A gift card at a photo studio where she can dress up and take some portrait/ glamour shots. I think this would be a nice gift.


Me (betrayed): 35
Him:45


Posts: 260 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Canada
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Boudoir Photos of yourself.


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I second a cashmere sweater, or a handbag. Check out caphillstyle.com for ideas.

Or, since she does the salon thing every month already, why not upgrade her to a full day of more intense pampering for January?

[This message edited by Amazonia at 2:34 PM, December 7th (Saturday)]


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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cashmere makes me itch.

Don't know if you're anywhere near there, but I'd love a day trip to NYC, carriage ride in Central Park, champagne and a swanky lunch.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17171 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A woomba. Women love those.


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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Boudoir Photos of yourself.

WH5 told me he would be happy to be a stand-in ...


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