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User Topic: Had to phone my Atty yesterday...
dreamlife
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Cool  Posted: 10:40 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It really was not made very clear to me last month that when my D is finally signed off, it will be RETRO-ACTIVE TO A CERTAIN DATE (which has already passed).

Any one else go through this?

It feels mighty weird!

Weird...but GREAT!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25429 | Registered: Sep 2005
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am going to go D gift shopping for me!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25429 | Registered: Sep 2005
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have fun shopping!


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9710 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no idea. I wonder if anyone else knows?


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 739 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
courageous
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes that's true. I was in court in October where a judge granted me my divorce. Then the divorce decree was written.

Four months later we had to stand in front of the judge again regarding the wording of the decre to finally get it signed. My divorce is considered to be in October.


Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.


Posts: 648 | Registered: Jan 2012
careerlady
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Congratulations!


Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

Posts: 937 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
phmh
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Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It must depend on the state.

But congrats on already being divorced! I know it's not what you would have ever wanted, but I also know that a fabulous future awaits you!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3349 | Registered: Dec 2011
stronger08
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Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

By the time I was notified by the state, I was already D for almost 2 months. In NY its when the judge puts his signature on the petition.


You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

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