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User Topic: Very good article to share
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Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me 53
WH 58
Married 25 years
4 children S30,D24, S23,S21
D-Day Nov. 29, 2011
15 year affair with married employee.
Together trying to make sense of it all!

Posts: 783 | Registered: Feb 2012
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The thing I disagree with here is the BS having to clean up "their side of the street." The therapist implies fault with the BS. I truly believe that many BS are healthy and have nothing to clean up. (Not me).
Does forgiveness really mean feeling no anger or resentment? If so, it'll never happen for me.
The article does have great points about how to apologize and make restitution.
Thanks for sharing!

his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

The conditions we face do not define us. They remind us of who we are and who we want to be.

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