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User Topic: To R you need to be willing to lose your M
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

T/J on trust - less than a month from our 3rd antiversary, with a W who is a model WS, I still don't trust her.

I've adopted our MC's position: I'm aware that my W is out of her A and working successfully to change herself into a great partner (which is what I thought she was all along), but I still fear she'll hurt me. (In fact, she does hurt me from time to time.)

Bottom line: our MC seems to think not trusting my W is fine, so I don't sweat it. I'm convinced trust will come.

If you continue to heal and to rebuild your relationship with your H, who stopped hurting you so badly just a year ago, congratulate yourself for not trusting him.

fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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