I am not even attempting R at this point ... serial cheater, flat-out liar, and a fucking asshole for bringing his 'women' around me and my girls. He's messed up! I knew he had issues, I seriously didn't think this was one of them. Boy oh boy was I wrong.
DDAY 2 - 12/7/2013 - Started back in 2010....
I'm so fucking pissed I pulled a pic down off the wall and ripped him out of it, shredded his pic and threw it in the recycle. I know, that doesn't sound too intense .. but it felt good. I'm not going to do what I really want because I want to make sure I get custody of my girls. They have a piano recital tomorrow, and rehearsal for a play that opens next weekend. The timing couldn't get worse. I'm really not sure I should let him know that I know about this other affair, but I don't want to even talk to him any longer. He can go back to his mancave and Skype his sluts ...
My reason for maybe not saying anything to him at this point is I don't want my girls to be more upset. The other side of that is that I don't want them to lose respect for me.
Confront when you want, or not at all. I am assuming that you have copies of all the evidence you found on Facebook. Might be fun to take all of that to your attorney and let him/her file for adultery. Have stupid piece of shit served at work.... his own sweet little D-Day #2. For good measure, I would have the whore served as well, maybe with some yummy interrogatories requesting where, when and how many times they had sex!
They think they are so clever going behind your back, I say see how much they like it. You are going to be fine; your girls already know that you are the bomb. Dad on the other hand.....
Sending you positive thoughts & hugs
I'm so sorry...I am sending you strength.