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User Topic: One way to waste a Saturday morning ...
TheRealDeal
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Default  Posted: 3:38 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I suppose I didn't waste the morning but will idle away the rest of afternoon/evening...
went running at 5am because I couldn't sleep, spent 4 hours at a discovery workshop about becoming a licensed massage therapist...something I've been interested in doing after I retire from current career in 5 years. And then had a nice lengthy lunch with a girlfriend. Its dark outside already so I'm surfing SI, will do some online shopping, and then a nice hot shower later. (I long for a bath but the bathtub thingy broke years ago and it's not fixable without replacing the whole tub/drainage pipes)


Me: 45, him: 53
together 18 years
DDay1 March 2013, Dday2 April 27, 2013, Dday3 June 1, 2013
We are in R and trying to make it
Never lose yourself trying to hang onto someone who doesn't care about losing you.

Posts: 242 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Northeast
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 5:07 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well... let's see:

Washed a load of clothes, dried them, folded and put them away.
Folded an already washed/dried load from last weekend
Cleaned kids bathroom
Ate cereal
Took car to car wash
Went to Kohl's
Went to Apple Genius Bar to get computer looked at
Ate Pizza at food court
Went to Dillards
Went to F.Y.E ($5 movies!!!)
Went to Barnes and Noble and bought books and sat in Cafe.
Stopped by Starbucks
Went home.

Was that enough??

No?

Ok, I've got a load of sheets in the washer now.


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24347 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jrc stop you're making me tired.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


Posts: 2639 | Registered: Oct 2012
peacelovetea
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I spent much of the morning being lazy in bed, then dragged myself to Home Depot to buy paint and a curtain rod, and then prepped, taped, and painted the kids' bath after having repaired (again!) the pulled-from-the-wall towel rack last weekend. First coat is on and drying and I will do the second coat after the kids go to bed -- or maybe tomorrow. Soon it will be time to get the kids from their dad, and then we will have dinner and play some games or something, then tomorrow we will put up the Christmas tree and maybe make some cookies. Ooh, I should prep the dough...


BW, SAHM
D-Day: 6/5/09, drunken ONS on business trip, confessed immediately, transparent, remorseful but emotionally clueless
M 11 years, 3 kids
4/12 Tried to R for 3 years, have decided to D
12/31/12 D final

Posts: 542 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: PacNW
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hibernating. It's rudely cold outside. I did venture out for lunch with DD and a long overdue haircut, but otherwise? Total hibernation weekend.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24435 | Registered: Aug 2011
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We slept in after a late night.
Lazed around until noon, drinking coffee.
Went to Homegoods and found gifts (yay!)
Ate lunch out.
Hit Costco.
More coffee.
Tonight, we're watching SEC football (I'm an SEC girl).
Finally10 decided we should make chocolate chip cookies. They smell great.


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1280 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jrc stop you're making me tired.

Sorry

ETA: That was a light day for me

[This message edited by jrc1963 at 7:19 PM, December 7th (Saturday)]


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24347 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well we didn't go to the musical because when they were trying to do a simple tire rotation, I learned that the lugs on one of the wheels were totally stripped, two of them broke off and had to be replaced and the calipers were rusted solid. The mechanics were able to get it all fixed but of course it cost more than I expected.

And I failed emissions because the battery was disconnected during the body work I had last week. (I didn't post about it but I got up close and personal with a deer on the interstate at 80 MPH). So now I have to drive it for a while to let everythign reset before I get it re-inspected for another $25.

ETA: But we got the tree!

[This message edited by gahurts at 7:58 AM, December 8th (Sunday)]


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3325 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Since I loafed so much on Saturday... I have decided that I must work much harder today!!!

So we're off to the grocery store
Then to a big box store
And we have major cooking and cleaning to do.


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24347 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

jrc, Can I rent you out? Do you charge a reasonable rate or would I need to take out a second mortgage to afford a partial use of your vast energy?


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3325 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I come at a very reasonable rate actually!!

If you'll mow my lawn and weed my yard I'm yours for the taking... *that doesn't sound right does it?*


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24347 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can cut grass but weeding us not my strong suit. The way I look at it, if it's green it's ok.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3325 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
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