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User Topic: Joint Xmas Presents?
marionwendy
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Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You sound like a terrific Dad and in the end its not the presents the kids will see its the love and comfort they get from you. They will always know that there is a safe place with you. As a kid I remember the time my Dad spent with us not the gifts.


BS-49
WS-50
Married-18
Together-21
Children-2

Life is not measured by the breaths we take
but by the moments that take our breath away.


Posts: 197 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: canada
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you.

I have already had a talk with the kids about the importance and lack thereof of tangible things in life. They understand.

TN, I know I have come a long way. But to be honest? I am still so conditioned to please her, to not stand up for myself, that it took actual effort even to text what I did in fear of her reaction. The effect of an abusive relationship. I did not even know I was in one.....


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((AD)))
Many of us don't until something like this happens, and then we go HOLY HELL what was I doing the past X number of years. At least I did. LOL.

YOU are strong, capable, and just starting to see how awesome you are. Enjoy it!!!


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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