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User Topic: Stepping outside my comfort zone
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm trying the local brewery tonight. It's in a crowded downtown area, which is scary for me. The beer is good, my favorite local band is playing...we'll see. The crowd's way too young...meh.

What I'm trying to say is...you can do this


I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.

Posts: 19182 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can! have fun.


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 12 DS 9
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5307 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Enjoy, Saz!


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22682 | Registered: Aug 2011
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can do this Sad.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


Posts: 49764 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

do it!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7037 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Who cares about the crowd! How is the beer?


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
Celebrating 60 years on Earth

Posts: 16634 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After enough beer you won't even notice the crowd.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3084 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
phmh
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Excited for you. Also, there are some really great breweries near you, so I'm jealous!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3101 | Registered: Dec 2011
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The beer is pretty good; so it the music. I got to hear them last night too--geez, I'm becoming a groupie.


I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.

Posts: 19182 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
phmh
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not for the first time, I wish we lived closer together. You are rocking your new beginning!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


Posts: 3101 | Registered: Dec 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, groupie... any cute and available band members?


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22682 | Registered: Aug 2011
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What?? Talk to the band?? I'd die...

I know, phmh; I just bought my Birds of Eastern North America today


I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.

Posts: 19182 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
better4me
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

are you dancing to the music? Tapping your foot at least?


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 2828 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:06 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WTG, Sazzy!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15280 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Just a Cali girl
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 12:57 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome update Saz! You GO girl!


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1006 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 2:16 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah Sad!!!!!

You and I are a lot alike. I am so glad you went! Next time will be easier.

[This message edited by Chrysalis123 at 2:17 AM, December 8th (Sunday)]


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2373 | Registered: Jan 2010
fireproof
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Default  Posted: 7:30 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is great!

I hope you have the opportunity to go again- you never know the band may notice you are there

What an empowering NB!

Happy you had fun!!!

[This message edited by fireproof at 7:30 AM, December 8th (Sunday)]


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persevere
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4160 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Hope24
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're my hero, Sad.


She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.

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