We have agreed on everything and his dad has written up the agreement in a legal fashion.
I have a meeting with a lawyer tomorrow to make sure the agreement is fair and I am not missing anything.
I am trying to come up with a list of questions to ask while I am there.
Mainly, since you have already written it up, it's to make sure the legal jargon is correct. You don't want the other able to go back on the other 5 years down the road.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
Big step. Very sad, scared, nervous, resentful. No sleeping tonight apparently